You were sure you were going to spend the rest of your life together with her. You were sure she was “the one”. But, now it is all over, and you are wondering if she will ever come back.
These are some of the things that will determine if she will ever come back to you. First, it depends on if it was just an impulsive decision on her part. It also matters if she has other options. And, how you conducted yourself after she left will make a big difference on if she decides to come back or not.
So, let’s get into the details about if there is any chance of her coming back to your life
You want to consider if it was an impulsive decision on her part to leave you.
If it was, then there is a chance she will regret her decision once the dust settles, and she will want you back.
Did she have any history of suffering from bouts of depression or anxiety while you guys were together?
Did she struggle with extreme mood swings?
Was she the type to make a decision based on how she feels and regret afterward?
If you can answer these questions, you will be able to somewhat accurately gauge whether she is going to come back to you.
I used to live with one of my ex-girlfriends, and she would pack her stuff and leave to her parent’s place whenever we would fight.
But, she would quickly change her mind after a few days and ended up back at our place, and that cycle repeated many times throughout our relationship.
She also tried breaking up multiple times just to see my reaction, and to see if I would cling onto her. Her mood changed on an hourly basis (She suffered from borderline personality disorder).
Based on the history of her behaviors throughout our relationship, I knew she would try to contact me and come back to me even after our break up, and she did.
I want you to please be honest and answer this question.
Would you really be wondering if she will ever come back to your life if you had multiple other girls in your life, who were more attractive and cooler than this girl you are obsessing over?
The answer would be a clear no for most men.
So, isn’t it likely you are feeling such a strong attachment toward her out of neediness and desperation, rather than “love”?
While I would never advise anyone to cheat in a committed relationship (because that is just a scumbag move), I do believe it is a good idea for you to not completely cut all ties with your female friends.
How many times have you heard of a girl going out on the night of her breakup, and she sleeps with another man that same day.
I have seen this more times than I can count during my years of going out and talking to girls.
On the other hand, it is not unusual for men to go months (or even years) until they finally find a woman to fornicate with after their breakup.
The dating game has been heavily skewed in favor of women with the popularity of social media and online dating.
It has become increasingly difficult for average guys to have abundance in their dating lives.
But even ugly females are showered with validation on a daily basis with tens and hundreds of matches they get on online dating apps.
And hundreds and thousands of likes they receive for posting a half-naked picture of themselves on their social media account.
In this day and age, it is imperative for you to keep your options open as a man.
The length of the relationship can determine if she decides to come back.
How long have you guys been together?
If you guys have been dating for several years, then the void she feels from leaving you will be that much bigger (Unless you just kept dragging on a broken relationship, in which case, she may feel more motivated to move on).
It is not easy to just push that delete button on all the memories she shared together with you.
Your thoughts are going to constantly occupy her mind, and she will be thinking about you every time she passes the places you guys had been together.
The depth of the connection between you and her will have a big influence as well.
She may feel like you are the only person who truly understands her.
She may have shared things about her that she never ever shares with anyone else.
She may fear she will never find anyone like you.
So, even if she is temporarily angry at you, she will come back once she realizes you are irreplaceable with anyone else.
How You Act After She Left
The things you say and the things you do after she left, can have a serious effect on her desire to come back to you.
I made a mistake of begging for my ex-girlfriend to stay when she wanted to break up with me.
I was completely clueless about the psychology of females since it was my first relationship.
I really believed if I genuinely express how I feel toward her, then she will be moved by my sincere words.
The more I begged her to stay, the more she seemed to become certain that she does not want me.
So, why was that?
I was confirming to her that I am desperate.
By pleading her to stay, it was as if I was admitting that I have no other options if she were to leave me.
She sensed that, and it only repelled her further and further away from me.
Most nice guys hold such beliefs.
The nice guy believes that the girl does not want to come back because she does not yet understand just how much he cares for her.
He believes she will change her mind and come back to him if he writes her a long essay professing his unconditional love toward her.
But, this could not be further from the truth.
You have already lost value in her eyes at this point.
I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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