Where To Meet Girls

Have you ever wondered where is the best place to meet girls?

You’ve most likely come across the same old articles millions of times that list a bunch of different places where you can meet girls.

And that is precisely what I am NOT going to do in this article.

Instead, I’ll be offering some interesting perspective on how you can greatly improve your odds of not only meeting girls… but also taking things further.

But let me first say this…

Yes… It is true that you can meet girls any and everywhere.

Yes… It is possible you may very well meet your potential wife at the bar or a club… or while you are standing in line at a coffee shop.

But the question you should be asking is what exactly is the most efficient way to meet girls.

Before we delve deeper into this topic, however, you first need to clearly define what type of girl you are into.

If you know anything about marketing, you probably understand you first need to define your ideal customers before you start looking for them and it makes perfect sense.

How are you supposed to find someone when you are not even clear on who you should look for?

Best places to meet girls

Once you define your ideal customer, your job then is to figure out where they are hanging out.

And you are going to apply the same exact principle for finding that ideal girl of your dream.

So do yourself a favor and answer this question.

What are the most important qualities are you looking for in a girl?

Do you want a girl who is sexually free and will engage in all kinds of experimentation with you in bed?

Do you want a quiet and shy girl who will watch anime with you for hours?

Once you define this, then it becomes MUCH easier to identify where you should be looking for your ideal girls.

Say you want girls who are more on the intellectual side, you are most likely to find them at the library or at the reading or debate clubs (although I doubt any sane guy would want a girl from debate club…).

Say you are into girls who are more physically active, you are most likely to find them at the gym or hiking clubs.

It is fifty times (Yes… I pulled that number out of my ass) easier to meet the right girls for yourself this way because you and the girl already have something in common.

And we subconsciously tend to trust others more when we have more things in common with them.

This is also one of the reasons why cold approach can be one of the most difficult (or most inefficient) ways to meet girls unless you have thick enough skin to endure countless rejections.

You start from nothing when you first approach a girl. No commonality. No trust. No social proof.

Despite this, cold approach still is a great frigging way to build up your social skill and intelligence.

Anyway, as I said earlier, the rapport is already sort of established when you meet girls this way.

All you have to do is be a normal cool dude.

This should not be too much to ask if you have studied even a little bit of seduction.

So what is the other side of the equation?

The next point I want to talk about is talking to girls in places where you have some sort of status.

And what do I mean by status?

Let me expand on this…

When you go to a doctor’s office and the doctor prescribes you a certain medication, do you ever question him?

Some people might but most won’t question a doctor’s judgment.

Does the doctor have to use negs and tease on you to spike your emotion to make you listen to him?

Well… you know the answer.

When someone is clearly a higher status than you, all they need to do is to simply tell you what to do and that often is enough to make you listen.

So how can we use this information to our advantage?

Think about anything that you do where you are acknowledged for your skill, position, and expertise.

But you should understand that you don’t have to be a doctor or a professor to have a higher perceived status.

More often than not, all you need is a little bit more expertise and skill in whatever group you are in, for others to perceive you as a high-status person in the group.

That could mean being one of the more skilled players at a video game tournament.


Being a jacked dude at the gym who everyone goes for advice.

When you are in an environment that makes you shine, it becomes a LOT easier to attract girls.

Let me ask you this.

Which environment do you think girls will find Bill Gates most attractive?

When he’s looking all uncoordinated while playing basketball… or when he is speaking at his company’s business meeting?

There is no question that in the latter environment, he’s going to be able to show all of his positive traits.

He is able to be his most charismatic self in the latter environment.

As a side note, I want to talk about this one topic that is not discussed frequently.

And that is… competition with other males.

How to beat the competition when meeting girls

For whatever reason, people don’t like to touch on this topic probably because it can be a sensitive thing to talk about for some.

For me personally, I believe collaboration beats competition which is why my friends and I prefer to share chicks together instead of fighting over her… (just kidding… maybe).

But on a serious note, when there are several guys in the environment, chicks will most likely feel a stronger pull toward you if you are a higher status dude… even if you are not the best looking guy.

When you were in high school or college, have you ever felt this strong desire to do something dirty with your teacher?

There were probably tens of younger and hotter girls in the class, but for whatever reason, they didn’t turn you on as much as the idea of you being naughty with your teacher.

How could that be?

It is most likely because the idea of doing something naughty with someone who’s in a higher position than you turned you on immensely.

Now, you can go ahead and times that desire by twenty for girls in the same situation.

A girl’s desire to be selected by the most powerful and the highest status male is very strong.

So how can you become a high-status male in your social setting?

There is obviously a lot of different ways you can accomplish this but one of the easiest (and one of the best) ways to establish your value in the group is to be friends with any and everyone.

Become that cool and friendly dude everyone enjoys talking to.

That is probably one of the quickest ways you can draw more people (and girls) into you.

Anyway… to sum it up.

1. Be sure to identify exactly the type of girl you are into and go look for that girl where she would most likely frequent.

2. Approach girls in an environment where your perceived status is high.

3. Be a cool friendly mo-fo that everyone enjoys talking to.

About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.