What Makes A Woman Fall For A Man?

There are not many things in life that are worse than going on dates with a girl you really like only to have her go no contact on you.

You will soon discover the best ways (that I know of) to make a woman madly fall for you.

Without further ado, let’s get started.

Your humor

Your ability to brighten up her day can be your strongest weapon when it comes to making her fall for you.

Most women, and people, in general, go about their day in a not-so-upbeat state.

They are awake, but not really present.

If you can help her feel positive and comfortable with your sense of humor, she will develop a stronger feeling for you.

This is not to say that you should bombard her with jokes every few seconds.

Trying to be funny at all times is a great way to kill the sexual tension, and make her interest in you evaporate away.

But, a few teasing or witty lines here and there will often suffice.

Whatever emotion a woman feels around you will become associated with you.

So, if you constantly make her feel positive, then your presence alone will trigger positive emotion in her.

That being said, positive emotion alone isn’t enough to make a woman fall hard for a man.

Your mysteriousness

This is especially crucial during the first few times you hang out with a girl.

The more you talk about yourself non-stop, the lesser she will be curious about you.

A large part of the initial attraction depends on that curiosity.

The more a girl thinks about you, the more significant you will become in her mind.

You need to avoid spilling everything out about yourself the first time you go on a date with her.

A woman wants to wonder what you are all about.

She wants to indulge in the joy of figuring you out.

You probably wouldn’t be so excited to go to a movie when you already know the entire plot of the movie like the back of your hand.

It is no different when it comes to a relationship between a man and a woman.

Her interest level will quickly drop once she starts to feel she’s figured you out.

This is why it is important to be a little unpredictable and spontaneous at times.

It will serve as a catalyst for a prosperous relationship.

Get her to talk about herself

A person’s favorite topic is him or herself.

You want to focus your attention on helping her feel comfortable, so she opens up.

The more you can get her to talk about herself, the more she will become invested in you.

We generally feel a stronger attachment to someone when they know all of the little details about us.

For this reason, this is one of the most crucial components of making a woman fall for you.

But, you obviously cannot accomplish this by simply asking her one question after another.

She needs to feel you are open-minded enough to accept whatever she tells you with no judgment.

So, it is important that you first lead the conversation by revealing something about yourself.

This can be saying something stupid that you’ve done recently, or your vulnerable past.

When you first open up about yourself, you are indirectly communicating with a girl you don’t judge others (since you don’t judge yourself).

Your smile

I can go on and on about different things you can say to a girl to make her fall for you.

But the truth is that a simple, attractive smile can often be enough to make a woman fall for you.

I would love to say you should smile however you want, and woman will be attracted to you as long as you smile.

But, that would be a lie.

There are certain types of smiles that are likely to take you straight to a friend-zone, and a certain type of smile that will seduce a woman.

Let’s talk about the type of smile you want to avoid if you want to make a woman fall for you.

It is best to avoid a wide ear-to-ear smile when you are talking to her.

This communicates your sub-conscious desire to seek her approval.

With such a smile, you are indirectly telling a girl that you really want her to like you, and this is obviously not very attractive to a girl.

Instead, you want to make smirking as your default smile.

A playful smirk makes you appear a lot more mysterious and intriguing than an uncontrolled smile.

It lets a girl know you are not completely sold on her yet, and you will give off an aura that you’ve already figured her out (which adds to your mysteriousness vibe)

Your touch

The way you touch a woman can have a great impact on how you make her feel.

If you touch her in a tender, caring manner, then she will feel you really care for her.

On the other hand, if you touch her in a firm manner, she is going to feel your intense passion.

Words aren’t always necessary to communicate how you feel toward her.

Your touch can often be just as effective at making her feel you really care for her.

Gently touch her body when she is tired and she wants you to express your tender side, but don’t be afraid to be a little rough when she craves for your passionate love.

Your value as a man

Your value can make or break your chances especially when you are dating a girl who is desirable to many other men.

If the girl has plenty of other options, then she has no reason to settle for average.

This is why you will never quite have lasting success with women if you solely rely on pick-up artist techniques to attract women.

You may present yourself as a cool, confident man the first time you meet a girl, but her interest will quickly dissipate away as soon as she realizes there is no substance to your personality.

So, how do you improve your value as a man?

There are lots of different ways you can accomplish this, but I want to talk about three main ways you can maximize your value, which include improving your physical attractiveness, working on your career, and improving your personality.

Improving your physical attractiveness

Get a better haircut, take care of your basic hygiene, start hitting the gym to maintain a good physique, and improve your fashion style.

It really is as simple as that.

You most likely already know what to do as well.

It is a matter of if you are committed enough to becoming a better version of yourself.

Working on your career

When an average man looks at a rich guy with an attractive girl, he automatically thinks to himself, “She’s only with him because of his money!”

But, I have different perspectives on this.

Yes, there are certainly gold diggers who go for rich men just because of the money they have.

But, a lot of women are drawn to men who are successful.

Most of us grew up to admire those who accomplish something magnificent in their lives, whether it be becoming a successful athlete or creating a successful business.

So, whatever success you experience in your life can easily spark admiration and respect which then can be translated into an attraction.

It is also important that you do not neglect your career for your own sense of self-worth.

Is it possible to get with a lot of attractive girls without having a nice career? Without a doubt.

Is it going to make you feel great about yourself? Maybe temporarily, but you are pretty much destined to feel like crap soon enough.

When you have to rely on others (women, in this case) to feel good about yourself, it is always going to be short-lived.

You only get a true sense of fulfillment from leveling yourself up.

So, focus on your career, not for women, but for yourself.

Improving your personality

Your personality matters a lot.

Your ability to be carefree and have fun in your interaction with women will increase your attractiveness tenfold.

Most men struggle with too much ‘seriousness’ in their personality.

They automatically default to a ‘logical conversation’ whenever they are with a woman.

This is problematic because a logical conversation is not very effective when it comes to arousing a girl’s emotion.

And as you should know by now, the attraction only takes place when her emotion is aroused.

Even a very good looking man with a dull personality attracts a woman because he is able to arouse her emotion with his physical appearance.

So, if you don’t have to be blessed with ‘good looking man’ genetics, it is imperative you learn how to touch her emotion with your behaviors and your personality.

Your willingness to be vulnerable

Why is it important to be vulnerable when talking to a woman?

Because a deep connection only takes place when two people are not afraid to be vulnerable and open up to each other.

Most men are terrible at expressing what is inside them.

The more you can bring out the thoughts and emotions that are lingering in your mind, the more she is going to be able to relate to you.

I am in no way telling you to act like an emotional cry-baby and talk about how she’s hurt your feelings and such.

That will only diminish her attraction for you.

But, when you are able to articulate yourself well, your bond will strengthen as a result.

Just don’t do it too often, otherwise, you risk losing her interest.

Can she be herself around you?

When a girl feels relaxed around you to the point that she can completely be herself, you will become irreplaceable.

The more you can bring out her child-like qualities, the more she will start to believe you are someone she can spend the rest of her life with.

Spending more time with her is usually the best way to accomplish this.

But, you can also speed up the process by keeping this one principle in your mind when you are talking to a woman.

Do not be afraid to be a little silly or make a fool out or yourself (to a certain point).

When a woman sees you are comfortable with yourself, she will also feel comfortable enough to show her goofy side in front of you.

About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.