An age-old question that’s caused so much headache and confusion…
What the Fugg do girls want in a guy…?
Let me help you clarify that concept once and for all in this article.
But before we dive any deeper, let me ask you this one question.
What do YOU think girls want in a guy?
There are probably a lot of different ideas in your head about what the girl wants in a guy.
But these are likely some of the traits that most guys believe matter the most when it comes to attracting girls…
A guy who is tall…
A guy who is rich…
A guy who is good looking…
A guy who is nice… Just kidding… maybe.
So it is time to expose the truths about how much each of these really matters and we will talk about what a girl “actually” wants in a guy at the end of this article.
Let’s get right into it.
The first one…
Girls want a tall guy
So how true is this?
Have you ever heard some dating coaches say how height doesn’t matter if you are confident?
Yeah… they are just completely full of schit.
Your height can make a massive difference and it is probably one of the most universally preferred traits in a guy.
There are a lot of different theories behind why girls prefer tall guys.
Some say it’s because taller guys make girls feel more protected and secure.
Some say it’s because being tall is a sign of good genetic.
Whatever the reason may be, it is undeniable most girls prefer tall guys (or at least men who are taller than them).
Now… does this mean you are permanently doomed if you are short?
And that is exactly what I thought for the longest time.
I knew you can successfully be in a relationship with an attractive girl as a short guy.
But I thought you are pretty much schit out of luck when it comes to casual dating if you are a short guy.
That is until I met a friend who was around 5’4 (163 cm) tall and had no problem hooking up with different girls on a weekly basis.
Let me just clarify I don’t want you to get the impression it’s cool to sleep around with a lot of women or become obsessed with your body count.
That path just does not lead to any fulfillment whatsoever although I encourage you to experience it yourself and make your own decision.
But I do want you to realize that you don’t have to play this “provider” type of game just because you are not tall.
You can still be a womanizer if that is what you aspire to be and you shouldn’t let what anyone else says stop you from going after what you want.
Let’s move onto the second one…
Girls want a rich guy
There’s no denying that money makes everything easier.
Money provides comfort and security and allows you to do whatever the fugg you want whenever the fugg you want.
I’m sure you’ve heard money is the number one reason for a broken marriage.
So is it really true that girls are magnetically attracted to guys who are filthy rich?
But ask yourself this question first.
If girls are biologically wired to respond to money, why the hell did they even marry a guy who is not rich to begin with?
Why do they cheat on their rich, old, and useless husband with a young hunk who can give them multiple orgasms?
It is probably safe to say the thickness of your wallet is not what hits women on a primal level when it comes to attraction.
Once again, do realize that money can be a very important factor especially if you want to keep a girl.
No girl wants to start a family with a bum who has no jobs and can’t provide.
So it would be in your best interest to get your financial situation sorted if you are more of a relationship type of a guy.
Let me tell you this, however…
In the past years of going out day in and day out, I’ve met a lot of people from different walks of life.
These people also included millionaires, doctors, lawyers, and dentists.
They were all obviously very financially stable and had no issue paying bills but they were STILL struggling to find the right girl for themselves.
I still remember meeting this lawyer who was recently divorced in his late thirties and he felt he had completely forgotten how to meet women.
The point I want to emphasize is that you are in for a rude awakening if you think focusing solely on your financial situation will take care of your dating life.
It most likely won’t… unless you also accumulate fame and status in the process.
Let’s talk about the third and the final point…
Girls want good looking guys
We are all more attracted to someone who’s physically attractive.
You are most likely straight if you are reading this blog but I bet you probably show more respect to someone who’s good looking and attractive if you didn’t know anything about him.
It is so hardwired in our brain to favor a more physically attractive person that there’s even a study showing parents subconsciously prefer a more attractive kid over the other.
In fact, I would even go as far as saying more girls prefer attractive faces over height based on my anecdotal evidence of going out for years.
That is unless you are on the extreme end of the height spectrum.
So is pretty face a cure for all?
And the answer is not so straightforward.
For one, what is attractive for one person may not be so attractive for another.
As cliché as it sounds, beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.
A girl who is into K-pop may find a very feminine looking skinny Asian guy to be her ideal type while a girl who is into fitness may be more drawn to a guy with a bigger muscle.
But more importantly, a lot of girls are more sensitive to your behavioral cues than your physical traits alone.
What most guys do, however, is to blame every factor that is out of their control while completely ignoring everything that is within their control.
How does your voice sound when you talk to girls?
How do you look at girls when you talk to girls?
How do you carry yourself around girls?
Do you carry yourself with a sense of ease and confidence or are you repelling people away with your energy?
These are all things you can improve that will play a huge factor on whether a girl finds you attractive or not.
As a final note, I want to touch on some of the behavioral cues that you can improve that will trigger attraction in women on a primal level.
I won’t go into details on these, however, since I covered these topic millions of times in my other articles.
1. Relaxed yet strong eye contact
2. Relaxed and stable tone of voice
3. Relaxed and straight posture
Notice how I emphasize on being relaxed each and every time?
One of the most important things you want to focus on is to feel comfortable in your own skin in social situations.
Otherwise, any and everything you do will come off as unnatural and, even worse, try-hard.
And there is nothing worse than try-hard energy for repelling girls away from you.
So if you take away just one thing from this article, please remember this one thing.
Always strive to stay as relaxed as you can above all else when you are out and talking to girls.