You will also learn some of the most effective ways to get her to chase you.
Make sure you don’t miss the last section of this article as it is singlehandedly the most powerful way to get a girl to chase you.
This is why you should stop chasing her
Let’s first briefly talk about why it is so important for you to stop chasing a girl who shows a lack of interest.
I want you to answer this question for me.
Think about the time something just fell into your lap without you having to work for it, whether it be a girl who fell in love with you at first sight, an exam you did well without having to study for it, or an item you got for free.
How long did you value those things?
If I had to guess, you probably didn’t value those for very long.
Your brain is wired to value things more when you had to work for them.
If you only have to put a minimal effort into getting something, you are most likely going to take it for granted.
So, how does this relate to why you should stop chasing a girl to make her want you?
Let’s say you’ve only known a girl for a short time, and you go out of your way to please her in any and every way possible.
You drive an hour to her place to pick her up, and you take her to an expensive restaurant on a first date.
You should still talk to them and be engaged while you are having a conversation.
But, it does mean you can’t put them on a pedestal.
Be polarizing by speaking what is on your mind
You need to start speaking what is on your mind when you are interacting with girls.
Most men filter what they say when they are talking to an attractive girl because they don’t want to offend her.
But, you need to realize a behavior like that is exactly what makes her put you into the same category as every other man, and lowers your value in her eyes.
So, don’t be afraid to express what you like or dislike.
Express yourself unapologetically rather than trying to act like someone that you think she would like.
You will notice girls chase you more when you do that.
Value yourself first
Don’t accommodate her schedule at all times.
For example, let’s say you are trying to set up a date.
What do most men do?
They try to accommodate to a girl’s schedule first and foremost.
Instead, tell her what days you are available, and you can ask about her schedule afterward.
It communicates to her that you actually have priorities in your life.
A woman does not want to be with a man whose life revolves around her.
When she can sense you actually have a purpose in your life, she will chase you more.
Status is the key to get her to chase
This one doesn’t apply to all situations, but it is singlehandedly the most effective way to get a girl to chase if demonstrated correctly.
How powerful is it to be a high-status person in an environment?
Just a simple act of you initiating a conversation with her can be enough to get her excited if she perceives you to have a higher status than her.
So, how can you position yourself as a higher status person when you talk to girls?
One way you can accomplish this is to talk to girls in an environment where you are the authority.
If you are in a position of teaching her something (yoga, dance, lifting, etc), or if you are the most respected person in the room, you will automatically be perceived as a high-status person in the environment.
You can also demonstrate your status through your behaviors.
Think about how most high-status men carry themselves, whether it be a president of the United States or an A-list celebrity.
They speak with conviction. They walk with purpose. They look at you with unwavering eye contact.
Throughout evolution, men have frequently lied to women about their status and the amount of resources they possess as a tactic to attract them.
As a result of this, women have become attuned to pick up subtle behavioral cues from men to assess whether he really is the real deal he says he is.
This is why it is crucial to pay attention to how you carry yourself before you even bother worrying about what to say to a girl.
Most women make judgments about you before you even open your mouth to say a word.
If you walk around like you haven’t stepped outside of your mom’s basement for years, she is going to shrug you off before you get a chance to talk to her.
So, do whatever it takes to elevate your status in a girl’s eyes, and sit back and watch her chase you.
Anyway, I hope this article gave you a clearer idea of why you shouldn’t chase a girl, and how you can make her chase instead.
But, it is on you to take the needed action to transform your dating life for the better.
I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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