Signs She Wants You

The girls have been talking to you (without you realizing believe it or not..).

And if you just learn to read their language, your dating life may very well transform overnight.

You may not realize but I can almost guarantee that there were numerous instances where you had missed all kinds of signals from the girls you’ve met in your life which in turn prevented you from ever capitalizing on it.

Even for myself, I realize just how much opportunities I had missed by not learning the languages of females.

I’ll share a brief story of just how oblivious I was at reading these signs and all of the obvious signs (looking back now..) that my first girlfriend gave me before I finally asked her to hang out with me.

So, I first met her at the gym and it’d be a lie if I told you her tiple D-sized mammaries didn’t play a role in catching my attention (Gym is pretty much one of the best places to find a high-quality girl if we’re strictly judging women based on looks) 

We started talking about powerlifting and Olympic style weightlifting because those were our common interests.

So what were some obvious signs she sent to let me know she’s into me?

Pretty much any time I was at the gym, she would come near me to exercises.

She would ask me to spot her EVERY time whenever she needed a spot.

She blushed every time I was looking deep into her eyes or standing close to her.

She would always initiate a conversation with me.

It got so blatantly obvious to the point where all of my friends at the gym knew she was into me just from the way she looks at me.

It’s actually quite hilarious to talk about the reason I asked her to hang out with me outside of the gym.

I was quite irritated by the fact she kept talking to me at the gym since I was trying to focus on my workout (despite finding her cute).

So, I told her to just meet me after the gym instead.

You know the rule. Gains come before hoes..

On a slight side note, there is one important lesson to be learned here.

Despite being so blatantly obvious with showing her intent (which was re-confirmed after we started dating), she STILL didn’t ask for my number or ask to go out with me.

And we, as a guy, must accept that is just how it is with most girls. The sooner we accept this, the faster we will be able to expand options for our dating lives.

So remember, no matter how many signs she shows or how much she is into you, it’s very unlikely the girl is ever going to initiate that first move.

With that being said, let’s now dive deeper into talking about some of the most common and obvious signs that she is craving for your manhood.

The most and obvious sign is that..

She looks into your direction frequently

We don’t look at things multiple times unless we are at least somewhat intrigued by what we see.

Unless you’re wearing some goofy outfit that draws everyone’s attention, the chances are she probably at least finds you not repulsive if she keeps on looking toward your direction.

And that, in my opinion, is a good enough reason for you to make that move.

If she holds eye contact for more than a second and she even smiles at you, then you really have no excuse to not talk to her unless you don’t find her attractive.

She’s literally begging you to come up to her and meet her. And if you are a gentleman, that’s exactly what you would do.

You would get off your fat arse, man the fuck up, and walk toward her with confidence.

Alright, moving on to the second point..

She somehow always randomly ends up near you 

If she somehow always ends up near you although there’s no particularly good reason to do so, then this may also be a telling sign she’s into you.

Think about it for a second, no girl ever wants to be around even within 1-2 miles of some dude she finds creepy and repulsive.

As sad as it may sound, if you are not creeping the girls out, then you’re already quite ahead of the curve compared to most men who get into this shit.

If she’s comfortable enough to be near you, then she sure as hell will be comfortable enough to talk to you.

This is also exactly what my first girlfriend did. She just followed me around like a little duckling wherever I went. 

On a similar note..

If she feels comfortable standing or sitting very close to you

Then, she most likely feels at least some attraction toward you. That is unless you present yourself in a totally homosexual way.

Would you want to sit near a fat, ugly girl who is repulsive?

Girls are exactly the same way. They don’t want to be near something (or someone) that repels them. The fact she’s ok with being very close to you is definitely a good sign.

If, on the other hand, she..

feels comfortable being physical with you and touches you frequently

Then, what the fuck are you waiting for?

It’s time to ask her out. If she shows all of the previous signs mentioned so far, it really is about time you stop over-thinking and pull the trigger.

I do want to note, however, that you first pay attention to how she interacts with other guys. If she seems like the type of person who is just physical with anyone she talks to, then it’s possible she doesn’t have any particular feeling toward you.

This is also the reason why you want to look for at least a few other signs for that extra confirmation.

When she..

Compliments your physical traits or outfit

It is also a very positive sign. Girls are very aware (especially hot ones) that what they say to a guy may draw wrong attention.

So, unless she actually has an interest in you, she would rather stay away from complimenting you in case you get the wrong impression.

I do have to warn you again, however.

I’ve got to emphasize that this doesn’t apply if you act like a complete degenerate in front of her.

Although rre, it is possible that the girl might compliment you because she feels sorry for you which is pretty much the worst scenario possible for you.

So, what does it mean if she..

Asks what your plan is for the weekend or she says she has no plan when you ask?

This is also a great sign that she secretly wants you to take a move.

The fact she is asking what your plan is for the weekend may very well be a subtle sign she’s sending you to ask her out. But, it’s also entirely possible this may not mean much. So, what’s a good way to find out what her intention is?

Simply, ask her about her plan for the weekend.

If she says she has no plan for the weekend (without elaborating), then there is a VERY freaking good chance she wants you to ask her out.

Anyway, that’s it for now..

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About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.