This article will reveal some of the crucial signs that a girl is testing you.
It simply does not matter if you are the best looking dude or have a lot of money.
If you don’t know how to deal with the shits she throws at you – then she will “instantly” lose attraction towards you.
On the other hand, if you know how to respond to her in a way that completely differentiates yourself from everyone else – which I will reveal in this article – you will stand out in a girl’s mind like a sore thumb even if you are not exactly the type of guy she usually goes for.
I want to start off by telling you a short story to illustrate my point.
So I was out at the club one night and I see this beautiful brunette girl with eyes that would seduce even an enlightened monk (Hell.. even my friend who’s been with a model had to admit she’s hotter than the model he’s been with).
To be honest, I was not in my usual “zone” having only slept for two hours the night before.
So I was just sitting on my chair, leaning back against the table while being half-asleep.
At one point, our eyes meet and she borrowed confidence from alcohol to approach me (Now.. you may be thinking I’m just joking but this is EXACTLY how you want to think about girls – that they are the ones trying to look for ways to hit on you because you’re THAT awesome).
She then proceeds to initiate conversation with the lamest pick-up line I’ve ever heard..
“Are you a cop?”
I simply reply to her, “What makes you think I’m a cop?”
We then proceed to talk for the next 20 minutes or so.
She introduces me to her friend and I introduce her to mine.
But I obviously wouldn’t be telling you this story if the whole thing went as smooth as, “we talked for a few minutes and I took her back home and Voila! Happy ending”
For starters, she continued to compliment my friend and engage him while routinely checking my reaction to see how I’m responding (Shit #1).
That was just the start of what’s about to come, however.
As we neared the end of the night, all of my friends had left the club and so did hers.
And it was just me and her left on our own.
I did my usual thing and told her to come drink with me at a more “private” place.
She was, however, super fucking persistent with wanting to go to another bar beforehand.
As much as I love advocating holding your frame, some girls have this weird little thing that they “have” to do – for them to feel comfortable enough to go back home with the guy they just met.
And I also found out the next day about why she was so persistent on “having” to get a little more drunk before coming back home with me… which you will soon find out.
Anyway, I let her have her way this time so we ended up at a nearby bar… and I did make her pay for my drinks as a little punishment for giving me a headache.
While we were having our second drinks, some guy walks up to her out of nowhere and give her a hug.
She introduces me to the guy and tells me it’s one of her best friends.
We then talk for a few minutes and I’m getting pretty freaking tired at this point.
So I just straight up tell her we are leaving and order an Uber from my phone.
As we are leaving the club, she turns towards me and asks, “Do you think my friend can come too? He’s such a nice guy..” (Shit #2).
At this point, I look straight into her eyes and tell her, “Not happening.”
She complains saying, “Aw..why not..” as she follows me into our Uber with her friend left behind.
Yet.. little did I realize there was still plenty more shit to be had
We arrive at my building and we are walking toward my room.
The entire time, she’s complaining about how shit the building is and she doesn’t like anything about the building.
About 3 steps away from my room, she pauses for a second then says, “Actually, why don’t we go to my place and drink” (Shit #3)
I pretty much feel no urge to reply to her at this point.
I just look dead into her eyes and tell her, “Nope, we’re drinking at mine.”
So anyway, we end up at mine and “shit” happens..
The next day, she blurts out, “What do I say to my boyfriend…” as she leaves my apartment.
On a side note, I do not believe in going for girls with a boyfriend but sometimes you only find out after the deed is done..
So, here’s one major point I want to really hammer home with this story.
Girls subconsciously (sometimes consciously like this one..) test you to see if you really are the guy you are portraying yourself to be.
She wants to validate that you are indeed that strong confident guy who knows how to lead her.
If you are not that guy, then she’d much rather just play with her vibrator than to be sucking on your little tootsie roll.
In this scenario, she was constantly testing me to see if I am:
1. Able to lead her with dominance and conviction or if I would fold at the first sign of her giving me shit.
2. Able to remain consistent with how I presented myself to her initially.
She then feels “secure” under your lead because she realizes that you are someone that she can rely on.
Anyway, that’s it for now.
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I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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