2. When you’ve already been affectionate toward her. Bombarding her with one validation hit after another is not going to make her fall in love with you more. It is just going to make her believe your entire life revolves around her. And she will start to appreciate you less since you (and your validation) are so readily available.
3. When she doesn’t show any sign of affection. There has to be mutual reciprocity in any form of relationship. If she’s not reciprocating any, there is no reason for you to be holding onto a broken relationship.
Why you miss her so much
But, we still haven’t tacked the root of the problem.
You have not taken the time to ask yourself, “Why do I miss her so much that I feel this compulsion to tell her that?”
And this is where you have to be brutally honest with yourself.
Isn’t it because, somewhere along the line, she became your entire life?
You may have stopped doing what you enjoy doing.
You may have stopped spending time with your good friends.
And she became your only source of validation.
When she treats you well, you are walking on air. If she treats you badly, your entire day is ruined.
It may or may not sound familiar to you.
But here’s the lesson I want you to take away.
Never ever give up on what you enjoy doing just because you enter a relationship with a girl.
I am all for love and sacrifices and all that stuff.
But, you should never stop doing what truly makes you happy.
Otherwise, it is a relationship that brings you down rather than the one that enhances you.
Do this before you tell her you miss her
If you still can’t resist your temptation to tell her that you miss her despite having read this far, please do me a favor and do this one last thing before you proceed.
And that is…
Masturbate before you contact her (I am sort of serious…).
Many men confuse lust with love.
When you are filled with a sexual desire, it can be difficult to see a clear picture.
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is to simply toss one off.
If you still miss her, then it at least means your feeling is genuine (But that still doesn’t change the fact it is a very poor strategy to get a girl back).
But you may very well realize it was just all lust that was disguised as love.
I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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