Ignoring a girl works extremely well when she has somewhat of an interest in you but she is “on the fence”.
Maybe you and the girl have been talking for a while and she knows you are a cool dude but she is not sure if she likes you “enough” to do anything with you.
The more she is emotionally invested in you, the more she is going to feel that void in the absence of your presence.
That is why ignoring your ex-girlfriend can be such a powerful tool since you and your ex most likely spent a lot of time together. And she feels strong emotional attachment toward you compared to random girls you meet (we will delve deeper into this in the next section).
So, the key really is to create enough interest in her before you even think about taking attention away from her.
Before we continue, I do want to emphasize this one point, however.
I know there are a lot of cynics out there when it comes to studying about seduction and persuasion.
They often say something along the lines of, “Just stay on your purpose and focus on yourself and women will come. There is no reason to play games with women!”
And here is the problem I have with it.
Almost all men, whose purpose is way grander (presidents, billionaires, and influencers) than the purpose of these dating coaches who spew out “be on your purpose” are the masters of persuasion.
Most, who are successful in life, know exactly what they are doing (and what the other person is doing) when they are in situations where they are required to exert influence.
In fact, the reason why they were able to even climb up the ladder in the first place was that they were the master influencer and a persuader.
So, I want you to view studying of seduction (and persuasion and influence) as a way to become more aware of life and different social situations in general (Instead of viewing it as a way to just pick up girls).
And if you prefer not to use any of these psychological triggers because you think it’s manipulative, I can respect that. Everyone has their own values and it is no man’s right to impose their values onto others.
But if you are not at least aware of how the human mind operates, then you will always be at the effect of other’s influence.
You can trust me on that.
So, you would be doing yourself a service by learning about persuasion whether you decide to use them for yourself or not.
After more than one hour of begging and pleading, what did I get in return?
“Sorry, I just don’t feel the same way about you. I don’t love you anymore.
That is when I said to myself, “Ok, I’m done with this BS”.
I already sacrificed my pride and dignity as a man to dearly hold onto her. I did NOT want to hit any more rock bottom.
I looked straight into her eyes and told her, “If that is how you really feel, then I guess there is nothing I can do about it. I’ll sleep on the couch and you can sleep on the bed tonight. You can move out whenever you want to when you wake up tomorrow. Good night.”
Once I finished my sentence, I left the room with no hesitation without waiting for her response.
Fast forward twenty minutes, I am laying on my couch getting ready to fall asleep.
I hear the door open and my ex comes out and says to me, “You can sleep with me on the bed if you want to.”
Needless to say, I made a very rough love to her that night with mixed emotion.
I was like the movie she’s watched hundreds of times with the ending she could picture with her eyes closed.
But, it was different when my actions and words changed all of a sudden.
It was something that she never would have expected me to do.
And with unexpected behavior comes unexpected emotion.
My sudden “takeaway” of attention created that gap in her mind that had to be filled.
And she couldn’t help but beg for my attention back once I stopped begging for her attention.
And this is why any form of “no contact” or “ignore her to get her back” can be extremely effective.
If you have been in a relationship with a girl for any prolonged time, you already occupy a significant portion of her mind.
When you suddenly ignore her and disappear from her life altogether, she is likely going to feel a surge of emotion that is almost unbearable for her to cope.
And the only way she can possibly feel normal is to reclaim your attention.
So, how long should you ignore your ex if you want to get her back?
The answer is…
It may not be the answer you want to hear but I’ve got to keep it real with you.
While ignoring her and deleting her from your life may certainly be one of the best ways to get her back, I do not recommend you use it as a tactic to win her back.
You guys may very well have reached a point in a relationship where she is more than happy to move on from you (and you should be as well if that is how she feels). And there may be nothing you can do to salvage your broken relationship at this point.
So, fully assume she is not going to contact you back once you ignore her.
Carry on with your life and forget about her by occupying your mind with new and exciting activities you’ve always wanted to do when you were single.
There is a VERY good chance she’s going to contact you but even if she doesn’t, it is not a big deal.
You already assumed that is a possibility. You have already moved on and you are just living your life. You went no contact with her to live your life as opposed to using it as a tactic to get her back.
So, whatever happens, it is still a win for you.
Do NOT try to call her multiple times. Do not try to tell her how much you really care for her by expressing your genuine feeling.
It is just going to cement in her mind that you are a desperate loser.
Realize that ignoring her is the best way to get her back. And if it still doesn’t work out after that, then it was never meant to work out in the first place.
Now, onto my favorite topic…
Ignore her and do this to attract her when she ignores you
So, what should you do when a girl ignores you?
The psychological trigger I am about to reveal works extremely well both for girls who are somewhat into you or even for a girl you may be dating right now.
Anyway, you should know by now that you definitely do not want to blast her phone or confess your love when she is showing lack of interest.
The reason why she lacks interest in the first place is that she views you as someone that doesn’t really deserve her attention and time.
If you are already perceived as a low-value man in her eyes, then giving her even more attention will only further bring down your value.
My advice is to stop giving her attention.
Talk to other girls (it is even better if she sees you having a blast with other girls).
Post a picture of you having an awesome time (without looking like a try hard) with your friends and other girls.
What do these accomplish?
When you were desperately clinging onto her, she likely perceived you as a loser without many options.
She may have even viewed you as an involuntary celibate whose only option is to sit in his room alone and jerk off to her picture if she were to reject you.
Either way, your value is rock bottom in her eyes.
But, when she can see your life is just as awesome without her, your status will be elevated in her eyes.
All of a sudden, you are not this needy dude who fantasizes about being with her throughout the day. You are just a cool dude who enjoys living his life.
I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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