So what exactly is a “shit test” and why do girls give a “shit test”?
Simply put, it’s any form of “provocation” that girls will throw at you to test if you actually are the type of men you portray yourself to be.
And this is usually not “consciously” done on a girl’s part.
It’s rather more of a “reactionary” thing a girl does when she sees you presenting yourself as a confident alpha male.
They subconsciously want to find out if you really are who you portray yourself to be… or whether you are putting on this fake mask of a confident guy.
I want to note, however, that shit test is not as common as what most guys in the community (dating/pick-up) make it out to be.
When girls tell you to fuck off in a sincere way, there is probably a good chance that she genuinely wants you to get the fuck away.
That doesn’t mean your chance of sleeping with her is forever lost.
It just usually means she’s not down to have any further conversation with you at that moment of time.
I’ve seen so many guys try to “persist” through girl’s rejection because they think girls are throwing shit tests at them.
And they end up getting kicked out of the club or getting into fights.
If a girl looks straight at you in the eyes and asks you to leave with a completely breaking rapport tonality, then you should probably just leave.
On the other hand, if you can sense the girl is sort of in an auto-pilot mode of rejecting guys… or she’s just in an emotionally heightened state.. then there actually is a way you can turn it around.
With that being said, let’s talk about the..
The truth of the matter is… there really is no one best way to pass a shit test.
But as long as you have this one principle in your mind, you are always going to be able to respond to shit test in an appropriate way that won’t ruin your chances.
The key is this…
To not be emotionally affected by what the girl throws at you. If you show any visible sign that you are shaken by what the girl says to you… then she’ll subconsciously start to feel you may not be as cool as you originally portrayed yourself to be.
That doesn’t mean all your chance is lost, however. But it will be an uphill battle.
You may still be wondering if there are certain things you could say to maximize your chance of passing a shit test.
Here’s my suggestion.
Whatever you choose to respond with, keep it short.
In fact, not even responding to her shit test may very well be your best bet – as long as you don’t show any signs of being visibly shaken through your body language.
You can simply smirk while looking directly into her eyes then talk about something else.
Once again, the key is for her to realize that nothing she throws at you has any emotional impact on you whatsoever.
These are just some examples of (possible) shit tests:
*Note: Keep in mind that girls may sometimes say these things just as an “observation”… but even then..
How you respond can greatly influence the way she perceives you.
1. You think you are so cool..?
2. You think you are so funny..?
3. Why are you wearing that shirt..?
4. Why do you talk like that..?
Basically, anything that tests who you are and/or your behavior…
Once again, don’t let any of these statements affect you emotionally.
Because if you do, it tells her you are not secure in who you are… and that is a big turn off for girls.
These are just a few examples of how you can respond to her:
1. Smirk with silence for a few seconds as if she’s your little sister throwing her usual tantrum.
2. Simply say “Thanks” with a smile while looking into her eyes with a nice relaxed smile.
3. Or you can just say “Yeah” and change the topic.
It’s important you don’t flinch or avoid eye contact.
Your eyes are your “honest signal”.
If she sees you looking away or flinching, then she will sense you were emotionally affected by what she said.
Thus, why it is so important to communicate with your eyes that nothing fazes you.
I’ve already briefly touched on this but I’ll end this post with..
The first reason is quite obvious as I had previously mentioned.
You are unnecessarily causing a girl to feel uncomfortable.
Words will spread quickly that you are going around making other girls feel uncomfortable.
You will “burn the bridge” and lose any and every possible chance you have with that girl and all of her friends in the future.
And there’s a good chance you may even get banned from the club.
The second reason is even more important in my opinion.
Trying to persist with girls who are not giving you anything just drains your energy and destroys your “state”.
The act of persisting when another person is showing disinterest to the point of humiliation… is the quickest way to feel drained.
You will then carry this negative momentum to the next girl you talk to and it’s just a negative spiral from there.
This is precisely the reason why my friends and I made a rule – when we went out – to get the fuck out of the interaction as soon as we were annoyed by the girl we were talking to.
So if a girl is unreasonably rude and doesn’t have any qualities that you appreciate – then learn to gladly leave her alone so you can find a better girl for yourself.
Anyway, that’s it for today.
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I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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