Is She Losing Interest

So what are some signs she is losing interest..?

And what are some things you can do to prevent her from losing interest..?

In this article, you will learn about some of the tell-tale signs her sugar walls are drying up…

Without further ado, let’s dive right in.

The first sign of her losing interest is…

She is contacting you less and less frequently 

It is crystal clear what this means…

It simply means you are becoming more and more distant in her mind.

You may be saying she is legitimately busy with her school or work.

The thing is… if you were significant enough in her mind, she would still be putting effort into keeping in touch with you.

Even if it is true that she’s busy… it just shows she is only willing to put effort into this relationship you guys have… when her life is not filled with other “more” important priorities.

Another possible sign is…

She is never really present when you guys are hanging out 

If it has been a while since she’s taken her time to look at you in an intimate way – then that is a good sign her interest is drying up.

She simply does not feel the same way toward you for whatever reason.

To put it simply, you are not so interesting to look at… anymore.

Another tell-tale sign she’s losing interest is that…

She does not want to have sex with you anymore 

There can be a few instances in which this doesn’t have anything to do with her interest toward you – such as extreme stress from work and hormone fluctuation from medication etc.

But, generally speaking, it is likely she just does not feel the same degree of intense attraction she felt toward you when you guys first met.


She talks about other guys a lot in front of you 

This may also very well be the sign she is losing interest.

Maybe, she just can’t seem to shut up about this Johnny dude from work… and how funny and smart he is.

Whatever your mind pays attention to… grows bigger and bigger in your mind.

The more she thinks about someone else, the more she will develop feelings for that person.

And the lesser you will take up space in her mind.


She is always too tired to spend time with you because of work and school 

It’s also likely that spark is dying down.

The idea of hanging out with you just does not excite her as much anymore… and she’d rather get a few extra hours of sleep over spending time with you.

So… let’s now talk about some of the things you can do in the future to prevent girls from so quickly losing interest in you.

The first and foremost thing to keep in mind is to…

Not be needy with her 

Stop texting and calling her every few hours.

Stop showering her with compliments all the time.

Whatever you do too much of… loses its effectiveness.

Your compliments start becoming meaningless when you shower her with compliments twenty times a day.

You texting her becomes meaningless when you become “that guy who just always texts” in her mind.

Hey… I’m not in that camp of preaching, “Don’t ever give validation to girls and do not ever let her know where you stand…!”

But, it is important you become aware of basic human nature.

Give her validation only when she deserves it.

Give her compliments only when you truly mean it.

And they will actually start to mean something to her.

The second important principle is to…

Not be so predictable 

There is a reason why we say variety is the spice of life.

Every one of us absolutely hates feeling bored… and our brain is constantly searching for something that will occupy our attention and keep us entertained.

When you go to the same places you guys have visited hundreds of times. When you fuck her the same way you fucked her hundreds of times. When you watch the same shit you guys watched hundreds of times…

She will start hating every second she spends with you.

And her brain will start to actively search for stimulus that is more new and exciting… like Johnny from her work.

As with anything else in life, it takes effort to keep what you have.

If it’s not improving then it’s regressing. There’s no middle ground.

If your relationship is not getting more awesome with her day by day… then it’s most likely on that decline.

Don’t get me wrong…

You should only be willing to put these efforts into your relationship if you believe she’s worth your time.

There simply is no reason to put all these efforts for someone who you don’t believe deserve it.

One more point I want to make is that…

You need to be actively pursuing your own passion 

There is nothing less masculine than a man who has no goal and ambition.

She might as well date some seventy-year-olds if she was going to date a man who’s lost all his passion and desire to go after something… since the old dude would most likely be at least richer than you are.

Her attraction toward you will grow even stronger when she realizes you put your purpose above her.

The truth is… no girl wants to date a dude who puts her on a pedestal.

More importantly, a lot of the problems I had mentioned earlier – being needy and predictable – will usually resolve on their own when you are relentlessly pursuing your purpose.

This “purpose” does not necessarily have to be grandiose or anything like that – although that would be ideal – but it has to be something you are genuinely passionate about.

Maybe, it’s going to the gym. Maybe, it’s helping kids at the charity.

But you absolutely do need to find interests outside of staring at her face for five hours a day.

I want to end this article with one additional point.

If she had already lost interest in you… then you should simply move on and focus on yourself or find another girl.

As I’ve said hundreds of times in my other articles, nothing good ever comes out of chasing a girl who is not reciprocating.

And this is also the best shot you’d have at getting her interest back – although that is not the reason why I advise you to do this.

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About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.