How exactly do you turn a girl on…?
Well.. there are a lot of different factors that can come into play.
In this article, you will be learning about some of the most crucial components that will make her beg for your love… but only if you know how to execute it properly.
The first point that really is a no brainer is…
If there is no physical attraction then there is no sexual attraction (although there are some exceptions… but that is a topic for another day…)
If she doesn’t find you physically appealing to some degree at least… then anything and everything you do to turn her on will be a futile effort.
Imagine a girl that is totally out-of-shape wearing lingerie trying to seduce you with her seductive eyes.
How much would you be turned on by that..?
Probably not so much unless you are into that sort of stuff.
As much as some dating gurus love to talk about how looks do not matter at all… girls really are not that much different than guys.
Many women absolutely love it when a guy is young, healthy, and fresh.
Otherwise, why would you see some of these Hollywood actresses who are in their 50s date dudes who are in their 20s..?
But, let’s not all get depressed now if you are not one of those guys blessed with great genetics.
At the end of the day, every girl is different when it comes to how much she values the guy’s looks.
Even if you fall a little short on her look scale, you may very well manage to seduce her with your awesome personality (if the girl values personality over looks that is).
You may still want to argue it’s all about looks but just go out to any crowded area in your city and creepily stare at couples walking by.
It’s not always the best looking dudes who are walking around with cute girls.
If you still want to argue it’s because they are rich or other BS then you honestly have some internal work to do.
That may very well be true but the fact your brain automatically defaults to that conclusion says there is a lot of unhealthy shit going on in your mind.
The second point is…
Let me see how I can explain this…
If you are the type of dude who always habitually breaks any sort of “tension” that builds up between you and the girl… then it is going to be very hard to turn her on.
You need to learn how to play with tension.
You don’t want tension to amplify so much to the point that the girl wants to leave… because she feels suffocated by it.
But you also don’t want to be that guy who…
1. Always play it off as a joke after you make sexual statements.
2. Can’t hold strong eye contact for more than a second.
3. Always talk extremely fast and with a pitch that goes up at the end of each sentence.
These are all habits that are great at killing any sort of sexual tension.
If you are so used to these habits then it’s going to be tough to go against them at the start.
So, you need to start out by focusing on one at a time.
For example, for one week… focus on maintaining eye contact with girls for a slightly longer than you are comfortable with.
And the next week… focus on your voice tone.
I say this all the time… but the focus is the key to the fastest growth.
If you try to focus on multiple things at once, it’s going to massively slow down your progress.
The third point is to…
That climax always feels more satisfying when you start out slow and gradually build up… until that explosion.
Let’s say you listen to two types of songs.
One song starts out with full-on shouting and maintains that energy, tone, and pitch throughout the entire song.
Another song starts out as a whisper but the energy and intensity build up as the song progresses.
What do you think people would prefer to listen between the two..?
Generally speaking, it would be the latter.
As your emotion builds up, your craving for that explosion (or release) of emotion becomes more intensified.
And when the singer finally hits that note, you feel that goosebump running across your entire body.
It is much the same with girls.
If you are just full-on sexual and direct with the girl from the get-go… then it just is not as exciting for the girl when you guys finally reach that point of having sex.
On the other hand… when there is that slight uncertainty (and anticipation) of whether or not something is going to happen between the two of you… everything feels a lot more satisfying when something finally does happen.
So, what exactly do you do then..?
Here’s my advice.
Just stay away from being completely overtly sexual from the start.
There can be exceptions to this… if the girl is already extremely turned on at the time you encounter her… but it’s not something you can expect to happen all the time.
So, this is usually a good rule to stick with… if you are trying to maximize your chance with girls you come across.
You then want to start throwing some hooks here and there during your conversation with her…
For example, say she tells you how she made such a mess while she was eating.
You can say to her with a cheeky smile, “Oh… you like it dirty eh?”
Just promise me you will pay extra attention to your tone and smile… so you don’t come off like a serial killer.
Saying statements like that will plant a seed in her mind so she can “expand” on it using her own imagination.
Wouldn’t it be so much better if you let her dirty little mind to turn herself on… as opposed to you “trying” to do all this shit to get her turned on…?
Anyway, that’s it for today.
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