Talking to an attractive woman is a nerve-wracking experience for most men.
No matter how calm you try to remain, it is hard not to get inside your head when there is a beautiful woman staring into your eyes.
The question is, how can you present yourself in the most attractive manner, so you stand out from the rest?
This article will reveal the most important principles you need to follow when talking to a beautiful woman.
You should be equipped with all of the knowledge you need to effortlessly attract a beautiful woman by the time you finish this article.
The seventh point in this article is by far one of the most common mistakes that men make, so make sure you don’t skip that part!
Let’s get started if you are ready to learn the best ways to talk to a beautiful woman.
This is not only limited to talking to a beautiful woman, but it also applies to any social interactions you have with another person.
The way you look at a person says a lot about who you are.
If you are able to maintain solid, steady eye contact with a beautiful woman, that already puts you ahead of most men.
Most men struggle to keep calm and stay collected when they are talking to a really attractive woman.
Just a mere fact that you can maintain your eye contact with an attractive woman (assuming you are not looking at her with tense, bulging eyes) will already put you at the top of the food chain in the dating world.
A woman primarily looks into your eyes to assess what type of person you are.
So, you now understand the importance of good eye contact, but what exactly is considered “good” eye contact?
Let’s first start out with what you do NOT want to be doing with your eyes when you look at a woman in her eyes.
So, how should you look at a beautiful woman to make her fall for you?
This is my advice on how to look at girls.
An attractive voice can be a great equalizer for men who are not exactly blessed with an attractive body or a face.
There is a reason why people with great voices are compensated well in our society, whether it be a singer or a voice actor.
It is hardwired in our brain to respond favorably to an attractive voice.
Think about the time when you met someone for the first time, and you didn’t think much of the person initially.
But, your perception of the person completely changed as soon as he opened his mouth because he talked with such a deep, attractive tone.
I’m sure you can think of a few instances like that.
So, we now understand the power of an attractive voice, but what exactly makes your voice sound attractive to others?
Do you necessarily have to possess a deep tone for your voice to sound appealing to women?
It certainly helps, but it is only one of the many components that make up an attractive voice.
Let me list some of the qualities that you can actually change and improve to make your voice more appealing to others.
If you are serious about improving your voice, you want to look up some of the actors and speakers that women find attractive and try modeling the way they speak.
Find someone with an attractive voice that most closely resembles your natural tone.
Record your voice and see if you can model his voice as closely as you can.
As you practice, you will be able to eventually discover the most attractive version of your voice, but the first step to finding your unique style is to model after success.
I am sure you’ve heard millions of times that your body language is more important than your words when you are interacting with women.
Generally speaking, a beautiful woman pays very close attention to a man’s body language because she realizes that his body language often reveals more about him than the words that come out of his mouth.
Just think about how you judge someone when you meet someone for the first time.
If you prefer to stay politically correct, then you probably wouldn’t admit that you judge someone based on how he carries himself.
But, if you are even a slight bit honest, you wouldn’t deny that you do, in fact, judge others based on their body language.
If you see a person slouching forward and walking around with a forward head posture while looking down at the floor, then it is hard not to assume that he must be lacking confidence.
If the person is crossing arms and nervously tapping his foot, then you are going to assume he must be feeling quite uncomfortable.
Now that we are fully aware of the importance of good body language, here is the list of some things you want to note when you are practicing attractive body language.
This is by far one of the most common mistakes that a man makes when they talk to a beautiful woman.
It only feels natural for most men to compliment a woman especially when she is attractive.
Her attractive physical appearance is the exact reason why you are talking to her in the first place, so why wouldn’t you comment on it, right?
But, here is the problem.
A beautiful woman gets complimented for her looks on a daily basis.
In fact, compliments are frequently used by a desperate man in an attempt to win a girl over.
So, not only is a beautiful woman de-sensitized to compliments, but she will also likely put you into a “creepy man” category when you bombard her with compliments.
For this reason, you are often better off teasing a beautiful woman rather than relying on flattery to win her over.
It will make you stand out in her eyes because most men wouldn’t dare to say anything that may offend her.
It is easy for you to wrongly assume that you should play it safe with a beautiful woman, but that is just an illusion.
A safer thing to do is to take chances and not be afraid to be a little different than the rest of the pack.
In the former scenario, the best possible outcome is you getting put into a permanent friend-zone.
In the latter, you actually have a chance to make her fall for you by standing out in her mind.
If you can just be yourself around beautiful women, that already puts you miles ahead of other men.
Even the most normal man turns into a weirdo when he is interacting with an attractive woman, and understandably so.
For most men, it is not exactly the most comfortable experience in the world to be talking to an attractive woman since a man’s brain is almost hardwired into putting a beautiful woman on a pedestal.
So, when you look like you are at ease around a beautiful woman, you are instantly going to differentiate yourself from other men.
You will indirectly communicate to her that you are used to being around attractive women, and her presence has no emotional impact on you.
And of course, she will feel a stronger attraction to you as a result.
You really want to focus on eliminating all of your “try-hardness” when you talk to a woman.
A good way to think about this is to ask yourself if you talk to her (and treat her) the same you would talk to your best friends.
If the answer is no, then there is a good chance you are not truly being yourself around her.
One mistake a lot of men make in their interaction with women is that they spend a lot of time boasting and talking about themselves.
They believe that the more they talk about how awesome they are, the more she is going to feel attraction toward them.
But, these men fail to realize (but you don’t… since you are awesome) that people really only care about themselves.
We tend to like someone more when he takes his time to listen to our story rather than going on about his problems.
So, the best way for you to connect with a beautiful woman is to take a genuine interest in getting to know her.
I’m not talking about “pretending” to care.
I’m talking about actually being interested in learning more about her and being an active listener in a conversation.
But, I know you probably could care less about hearing her talk about Kardashians.
And you certainly don’t want to be too accommodating to the point that you force yourself to care about what she says when you have zero interest in the topic (because your feelings matter too…).
So, how can you meet her halfway while you still make her feel like you are genuinely interested in her?
The solution is to talk (and ask) about something that you are also interested in.
For example, she probably has a couple of different interests, such as yoga, lifting, and cute little animals.
If your passion lies in lifting, then you would simply base your conversation around lifting by asking her relevant questions related to lifting.
That way, you and the girl will both be happy in a conversation without one having to sacrifice for another.
With beautiful girls, you want to demonstrate your value first before you try to build comfort with her.
Most men that approach beautiful women try to play it safe by presenting themselves as a “harmless friendly guy”.
But once again, that is a surefire way to get friend-zoned.
What you want to do instead is to demonstrate your value as a high-value male by adopting the behaviors we have discussed in this article so far.
And once she views you as a sex-worthy man, THEN you can show her that you also possess the qualities of a caring man.
But, you do not want to mess up the order since it takes a lot of work to change a woman’s mind if you start things off on the wrong foot with her.
Anyway, it is now time for you to go out and talk to a beautiful woman to practice your newfound knowledge!
I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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