Re-initiating contact with your ex-girlfriend will do nothing good for you other than slowing down the whole healing process.
Let me just clarify one point. You are not cutting off contact because you are mad at her.
It’s the same idea as when you are trying to lose weight.
What do you think is the easiest way to not cave in to your temptation of eating bad food when losing weight?
Instead of trying to exercise self-control while you have chocolate bars, pizza, and chips around you, the simplest and the most effective way is to remove all of the high calorie food from your environment.
Do you ever notice you gain a lot of weight when you are back at your parent’s place for the Holiday?
I don’t know about you but for me, it’s because I have less control of my environment.
So, the best way to not slip back into your old bad habit is to control your environment first and foremost.
And that starts with cutting off contact with her entirely for the time being.
The second thing I did was to…
Completely occupy my time being engaged in something to move on from her
For me, it was going out almost every night with my friends.
It made sense for me at the time because I was a few months away from leaving to another country, and I wasn’t doing anything else.
For you, it may be filling up your empty time by taking up a new hobby or going to the gym more regularly.
It’s important for you to reduce your alone time as much as you can during the day.
Think about why people get addicted to video games and drugs.
Why do most of them slip back into their old habits even when they try to quit?
There can be a different reasons for this, but just being bored out of their mind is one of the biggest reasons in my opinion.
When do your most of your negative and useless thoughts pop up in your head?
I would bet it happens most when your brain is not actively engaged in anything, and you are bored.
Right now, your brain is still addicted to having her in your life.
And for you to move on from her seamlessly, it is best to cut her out of your life both physically and mentally.
The more you can reduce the alone time, the faster you will move on from her.
When you do this, you don’t give your mind too much room to wander around since you are keeping it occupied throughout the day.
Let’s talk about the third point now.
And let me just say this can be one of the most effective ways to move on from a girl (and it certainly was for me).
But for others, it doesn’t really do much.
So, just keep in mind it may or may not be effective for you.
With that being said, the third point is to…
Go meet a lot of new girls to move on from her
And when I say meet a lot of new girls, I don’t necessarily mean you have to fornicate with all of them.
I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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