So you’ve been accepted to your dream college and you’re excited for all the new adventures that are waiting for you.
But, what are most guys excited about going to college other than following their passion to make something out of their lives (Hopefully that’s the case for you..)?
A possibility of meeting new people.
And specifically the possibility of getting with that hot college babes without having to feel the pressure of finishing your deeds before your parents are back home.
I’ve been there and done that.
I had proudly maintained my virginity throughout my college years when I went to college out of high-school.
I did have a second shot at experiencing what it’s like to meet girls in college when I went back for my second degree, however.
And I’ll outline in this article what exactly I did differently the second time around… to go from a shy, pathetic virgin to being known as a ‘fuckboy’… who got with every girl within a cohort of 830 people in a student village.
Before anything else, you first need to define what exactly you want.
The way you interact with girls will be vastly different depending on whether your goal is to find a girlfriend or just to hook up with a bunch of different girls.
No worries.. I’ll outline both approaches in this article.
But let’s first start out with..
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to get a girlfriend in college.
Many guys mistakenly assume college life is all about hooking up with different girls.
But, you are actually likely to derive more satisfaction when you are able to form a deeper connection with a few people as opposed to many shallow connections.
With that being said, let’s talk about how you can find your little pumpkin in college.
The first and the most obvious step is to initiate a conversation with girls. And college is just a wonderful place to talk to girls because most girls are open to meeting new people.
Trust me when I say this.. you will experience a lot harsher rejection when you are out of college and rely on cold approach to meet new girls.
So, talk to girls everywhere – gym, class, clubs, cafeteria… you name it.
You may be wondering..
It really is as simple as saying hi.
Say you see a girl at the college gym, just tell her what you notice about her.
Maybe, she has a great squat form. Maybe, she’s built like a tank (in a sexy way.. make sure to add that if you use that line).
Then, simply transition into talking about normal stuff like what she’s studying and what her favorite porn is etc..
If you are talking to girls in your college class, then it becomes even easier. Ask her how she’s finding a class so far and if she’s done with her assignment.
You don’t have to come up with these crazy witty lines to impress her. Just be fvcking normal especially in a social setting. All you need to do to stand out in her mind is to just express yourself freely (which I’ll elaborate a little more later) once she gets more comfortable with you.
Once you start talking to girls, it’s time to get their contact information.
Start out by adding them on social media first.
By doing this, it’s a lot easier to gauge what kind of person she is and also if she’s in a relationship.
As Sun Tzu says, “If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.”
While I certainly don’t want you to view girls as your enemy, it most definitely helps to find out more about them to maximize your chance of making something happen… and not destroying your reputation in the process.
You may be thinking it’s just all about looks.
After all, it’s all those athletes and good looking frat dudes that are getting all the chicks right?
Well… Yes and No.
As I’ve frequently mentioned in my previous articles, your physical appearance certainly plays a big part.
And it is also true a lot of athletes and tall, good-looking dudes have an easier time getting with hot girls.
But, you would also be hard-pressed to deny there are tons of average looking guys dating cuties in college.
So, what should your action step be if you have not won a genetic lottery with neither supreme athletic ability nor stunningly beautiful face?
I can give you an entire list of the things you can do or say to try to appear more attractive to girls.
But, this one thing triumphs over pretty much anything else you “try” to do to attract her.
Be the most carefree motherfvcker she talks to.
It’s especially rare in this day and age of social media to ever come across someone who just speaks whatever the fvck that is on his or her mind.
If you can train yourself to do that, then you’ll get with more girls (if that is your goal) than you know what to do with.
You’d make all the college athletes and frat guys so jealous that they’d want to break your little skinny neck in half when they see you walking around with that hottie.
So, how exactly do you train yourself to be this badass carefree soul?
This is exactly what I did… to go from being afraid to speak up due to fear of other people judging my voice… to talking about the porn I watched from the previous day to girls in my class without coming as a creep.
As some wise man said, repetition is the mother of all skill.
Every time you feel any sort of internal resistance to speak what’s going on in your head, you force yourself to say it to the person you are talking to.
Yes, it will feel awkward as fvck at first. You may even get a “What the fvck..?” response from a few people initially.
But, you will start to sound more natural with each and every repetition.
Before you realize, you’ll reach a point where you can talk about absolutely anything you want to talk about without getting a weird look from others.
Girls will realize you won’t judge them for whatever they say because you don’t judge yourself with what you say.
And when you get to that point, girls will just open up to you… and I mean that in a literal sense.
You may be concerned about getting friend-zoned but that should be the least of your worries if you pull this off correctly.
It is highly unlikely you will ever get friend-zoned (Unless you friendzone her..) because you are not acting like their little bitch boy who tries to cater to them at all costs.
When girls feel comfortable and not feel judged around you, then it’s pretty much a game-over especially in a social setting like college.
They will happily hang out with you and accept whatever frame of relationship you want to impose – whether it’s being your girlfriend or being your fvckbuddy.
I’ve seen guys of all shape and sizes – including myself – get great success with girls in college.
And this is pretty much the only common denominator I noticed among all of those guys who attract a lot of girls in college while not possessing any genetic gifts.
Anyway, that’s it for now.
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