College is probably the best (and the easiest) time to meet girls for most men.
A lot of men struggle to meet women once they are out of college.
So, are your glory days forever gone after college, or is there any hope?
Once you are done reading this article, you will know exactly what options you have, and the best ways to meet girls after college.
Make sure you don’t miss the last section since it is one of the most effective ways to meet a quality girl after college!
Meet girls online
One of the easiest ways to meet girls after college is to rely on online dating apps.
With online dating apps, you don’t need to go out. You just need a couple of pictures for your online profile.
You can also get a vague idea of who she is before you even meet her which can potentially help you find a girl who is compatible with you without wasting too much time.
It all sounds great on paper.
But, it does come with its disadvantages.
The world of online dating heavily favors those who are very physically attractive.
This is because your entire worth is essentially based on your profile pictures, and how you are portrayed in those pictures.
So, if you are an attractive man, you will potentially get amazing results online (as long as you take good pictures).
But, if you are a man who is not particularly attractive, it is going to be a struggle for to meet the type of women you are really attracted to.
Meet girls through friends
Another great way to meet girls after college is through friends.
So, why is it so much better when you friends introduce you to girls?
We have evolved to become social animals, so we are wired to be much friendlier when we talk to people who share mutual friends with us.
Girls who normally would not even look at you will be open to talk to you and get to know you when they are introduced to you through mutual friends.
But, here is a caveat.
You actually need friends who are willing to introduce you to their female friends.
And unless you have a big social circle, it is unlikely you will have a lot of options if this is your only route to meet girls after college.
There is also a chance things can turn out to be awkward between you and the friend if things end badly with the girl you were introduced to.
Meet girls through your hobby
This is personally one of my favorite ways of meeting girls.
When you meet a girl through your hobby, you guys share something in common.
Your interaction with her starts off with some level of rapport which makes things less awkward.
For example, I go to the gym to about 5 times a week to lift weights.
It is the place where I spend most of my time apart from work.
So, it only makes sense for me to make friends and meet girls from the gym.
The toughest part is mustering up the courage to strike up a conversation.
If you can get over that mental hurdle, then you will notice that people are usually quite receptive to your approach.
If you decide to meet people through hobbies, I advise you to talk to everyone there.
You want to avoid being known as the guy who only tries to chat up attractive girls.
People will quickly catch on to what you are doing, and girls will perceive you as lame.
Instead, you want to become the friendly guy who spreads positivity to whoever you interact with.
This will naturally elevate your value and status in the environment, and attractive girls will be much more receptive to you as a result.
But, there is a problem if your hobby involves you being stuck in your room (or you only meet other men).
In such a case, you need to go out and find a social hobby where you interact with others.
Not only is this good for meeting girls, but you also want to socialize with people for your own mental well-being.
The more you isolate yourself, the more your mental health will deteriorate.
If you struggle to find hobbies that you enjoy, you simply need to start trying out different things.
The best way to get the momentum going when you are stuck is to just try doing a bunch of different things.
So, sign up for that martial arts class you’ve always wanted to sign up for.
Or try out a yoga class to see if you like it.
Meet girls at a bar or the club
This may have been the first place that popped into your mind when you thought about the best place to meet girls after college.
It makes a logical sense to go to a bar because that is where you can meet the most number of available girls.
But, here is the problem.
Most men are absolutely terrified of approaching girls at a bar unless they borrow the courage from alcohol.
And it quickly takes its toll on your wallet and your health when you are out every weekend drinking to oblivion.
So, what is the solution?
If you choose to meet girls at a bar, you want to be able to do that without being intoxicated.
It is not going to be easy from the start.
You will feel very out of place when you are sober inside the bar with a loud music and a bunch of drunk people around you.
But it is going to get easier over time, and you will eventually reach a point where you feel quite comfortable at striking a conversation with a random girl at a bar.
I want to emphasize one point.
If you are serious about improving your dating life, it is crucial that you make a decision to approach girls despite how awkward you may feel.
The truth is, there will always be a little bit of uncomfortable feeling every time you are about to initiate a conversation with an attractive stranger.
If you wait until the moment it feels ‘right’ to talk to her, that time will usually never come.
So, you have to make a conscious decision to talk to girls even when you don’t feel like it.
Here is my little tip on how to get into a social mood when you are out at a bar while you are sober.
I want you to try to reduce the amount of time you just stand there and observe people.
The more static you are, the more stifled you will become.
Motion creates emotion.
So, you want to un-stifle yourself by initiating a conversation with people around you even if it is just talking to a dude nearby.
This will help you get out of your head.
This, in turn, will help you to present yourself in a better manner when you end up talking to that incredibly attractive girl who would normally give you a mini heart attack.
Meet girls as you go about your day
I saved this for the last section because this is by far the most anxiety inducing way to meet a girl for most men.
But, this can also be one of the best ways to meet quality women.
Girls tend to be a lot more themselves when you meet them during the daytime.
A lot of women hide behind their fake personas when they are out at a bar or the club.
They act to impress men and their friends, and this often makes it difficult to connect with them on a deeper level.
But, it is a different story when you talk to girls as you go about your day.
They are usually in their most natural state which means you won’t have to deal with a lot of unnecessary BS (that you’d normally experience when you try to talk to them at a bar or the club).
During the daytime, you can actually have a conversation with a girl without all of the external stimulus and distractions, and that makes it easier to form a real connection.
You can strike up a conversation with a girl anywhere during the day, whether you are at a coffee shop, you are taking a walk at the park, or you are hanging out at the beach.
Once again, the hardest part is mustering up the courage to initiate a conversation.
You are going to experience a lot of rejections initially especially when you are not too experienced with talking to women.
Most men don’t have resilience to endure rejections.
But, you need to realize that people who are at the top of their game in any field are usually the ones who have experienced the most number of failures and rejections.
So, I want you to ask this question for yourself.
Would you rather preserve your little ego by not doing anything that may put you at risk of rejection, or are you willing to push through countless rejections if it means you can transform your dating life for the better?
If you said yes to the latter, then you know you need to start pushing yourself out of comfort zone as you go about your day.
Anyway, I hope this article gave you a better idea of how to meet girls after college.
Remember that knowledge without action is futile!