How To Make Her Miss You

So, is there really such thing as the forbidden technique you can use to make a girl miss you like crazy? Is it really possible to trigger her “I miss you” brain to make her chase, or is it all just a load of bollocks?

It is actually not rocket science to make a woman miss you. First, you want to leave some room for her to miss you. Second, you want to get her thinking more about you. Third, create unique memories together. Fourth, be present when you are with her. Finally, continuously remind her of your existence without being needy.

It is possible that the title of the article may sound manipulative to you.

I acknowledge that it does not exactly sound like you have a good intention when you are trying to “make” someone feel a certain way about you.

But, here is what you want to consider.

If she does not miss you, then she won’t think about you.

And if she doesn’t think about you, then there is no chance for the love to blossom.

It is on you, as a man, to know what you are doing and learn the name of the game to make things happen.

Women are not going to do it for you.

So, let’s get started if you are ready to learn the forbidden techniques on how you can make her obsessively miss you!

Leave Some Room for Her to Miss You

The first and foremost point I want to discuss is “leaving some room” for the woman to miss you.

When you leave no space for her, it is unlikely she’s going to miss you.

That “longing” for someone (or something) is only created from the absence of whatever you long for.

If you are texting her all the time and calling her all the time, then how can you possibly expect her to miss you?

Let me tell you a story you may be able to relate if you have ever been in a relationship.

During my first relationship, I spent every second of my time with my girlfriend.

We slept together. We ate together. We watched everything together. We went to school together. We came back home together.

Fast forward a few months, I literally felt zero physical attraction toward her.

She felt more like my sister than my girlfriend.

A lot of men make the exact same mistake.

They are way too “enthusiastic” about the girl, and their way of showing love is to just spend as much time as they possibly can with her.

And they believe that is going to make her fall in love with them.

But little do they realize it is achieving exactly the opposite of their desired effect.

This girl I know told me about her story with the guy she’s met in school.

She was eating lunch by herself, and she ended up talking to the guy who was sitting nearby.

She said she initially felt attraction toward the guy, and they even exchanged numbers at the end of their interaction.

But, here is the part where the guy completely messed up.

First, he sent a long essay as his first text saying how it was the best time he’s had in the recent past, and how much he is looking forward to seeing her.

This communicated extreme neediness to her and creeped her out.

Second, he proceeded to send her good morning and good night texts every single day for the following couple of days.

And that was enough to weird her out and make her never want to see him ever again.

When you meet a woman for the first time, you may have very well enjoyed every second you spent with her, and maybe you want to let her know how much you loved spending time with her.

But, nothing good will usually come out of doing so.

What it will communicate to a woman instead is that you are a desperate, needy man who rarely ever gets the chance to talk to an attractive girl.

And that is why you feel such a strong emotional attachment toward a girl you just met.

So, eradicate that neediness out of your system.

Not only will it allow a girl to miss you more, but it will also turn you into a much more attractive man.

Ask yourself some of these questions to see if you are spending way too much time with her.

How many days a week do you hang out with her?

Do you just habitually hang out with her for the sake of hanging out, or do you actually do something that lifts both of you up?

Do you (and does she) know everything she does from the moment she wakes up until the moment she falls asleep?

Is it becoming increasingly harder for you to feel sexual attraction toward her as you spend more and more time with her?

Answering these questions will help you determine if your life is too consumed by her.

Step back a little and give some room for her to chase instead of always being the first one to suggest hanging out, and she will start missing you like she’s never experienced before!

Make Her Think About You for Her to Miss You

The more her mind spends time thinking about you, the more she will miss you.

But, how do you get her to think about you when you are not around her?

You want to do and say things that make her “wonder” what it is you exactly meant.

If everything you do or say is predictable, then her brain has no incentive to think about you.

In such a case, the chance of her missing you is slim.

Do you tend to repeat the same stories over and over again when you talk to her?

Do you always go to the same places, and your life is devoid of adventures?

Do you only hang out with the same people you have been hanging out for the past decade?

Then, you will soon become boring and uninteresting in her eyes.

She won’t even have to talk to you to know what you are up to, and she is most certainly not going to be missing you.

What then is the best way to get her thinking about you?

Say contradicting things 

Say things that contradict each other.

You may tell her she is pretty but also tease her about what she’s wearing at the same time.

E.g. Your eyes would be a little too pretty without those eyeliners.

In the above example, you are complimenting her eyes, but also indirectly telling her that she would look even better without her eyeliners.

Your teases are “wrapped up” in compliments which makes it harder for her to get offended.

But at the same time, she is not entirely sure what to think because your compliment is accompanied by a subtle diss.

And this type of “mixed signals” will, in turn, engage her brain to think more and more about you, and lead her to miss you more when you are not around.

Do Things That Contradict Each Other

Not only can you send mixed signals verbally, but you can also do this through your action.

Let’s say you shower a girl with compliments, and she starts to think you are really into her.

Heck… she might even think you may potentially be a needy, creepy guy.

But a few minutes later, she sees you with another really attractive girl, and it is quite obvious the girl is really into you.

Now, her brain is confused.

She really doesn’t know how to define you.

Are you a potential creep or are you just a cool guy who was being nice to her?

Her brain becomes clouded with all sorts of curiosity about you, and she becomes “obsessed” with you over time.

She may even look up your social media accounts to stalk you.

Slowly but surely, she will start to miss you more.

These mixed signals are extremely powerful if used properly.

It can easily make a girl obsess over you and madly fall in love with you if you know what you are doing.

And this also means it can be extremely manipulative if you are not careful with how you apply this knowledge.

I caution you to use it at your discretion.

Do Something She has Never Done to Make Her Miss You

This is another very effective way to make her miss you.

When you and the girl do the same boring stuff that she’s done millions of times with her friends or ex-boyfriends, it is just not going to arouse a strong emotional response in her.

Yes, it is true that if you are just an awesome person, then that alone can be enough to leave lasting imprints in her brain.

But, why not share some new, amazing experiences together to amplify that effect even more?

Your goal here is to become the main source of her “unforgettable memories”.

It can be having sex at places she’s never had sex before, such as at the beach, a hiking trail, or at the park.

It can be going on bungee jumping or skydiving together.

It can even be just being there for her when she is suffering from death in her family member.

Sometimes, this unforgettable memory can be a painful memory, such as her having to get an abortion for the first time from unwanted pregnancy.

But, please do not get her pregnant just for that purpose (I’m joking but not really…).

Anyway, you are filling up spaces in her mind with these memories.

And when you are not around, she will be playing these memories on repeat mode, and she will start to miss you uncontrollably.

Have an Awesome Time Together To For Her to Miss You

This really is a no brainer.

When you have a splendid time together, she will miss you more when you are absent.

Many men are not present when they hang out with girls. They are there but not really there.

Their brain is filled with all kind of petty thoughts.

These thoughts may be a fear of judgment from the girls they are talking to.

Or, errands they have to run the next day.

Or, it may be unfinished work from school or workplace.

When you are actually present while spending time together with your girl, you will stand out in her mind compared to every other mindless zombie she comes across on a daily basis.

Do you make her feel positive emotions around you when you guys are hanging out?

Do you pay attention to her, or do you spend most of your time looking at your phone?

It is in our very human nature to crave for more when something makes us feel good.

If you make her feel comfortable around you, and you make her feel like she can be herself with you, then it only makes sense for her to miss your presence when you are not around.

So, get rid of your phone when you are spending time with her.

Don’t even bother seeing her if you are going to be worried about the appointment you have the next day, or the email you have to send.

If you are not mentally present even if you are physically there, you will end up making her feel worse than if you were not there at all.

So, if you think it is going to be impossible to pay attention to her due to whatever things that are occupying your mind, then don’t even bother seeing her in the first place.

Clear your mind and meet her when you are going to be there for her wholly.

Become her drug for positive emotions, and get her hooked on you.

She will experience that strong withdrawal effect when you are not around, and she is going to miss you badly.

Remind Her If You Want Her to Miss You

If you want her to miss you, it is a good idea to keep her reminded of your existence.

She may be indirectly reminded of you from her hearing about you through a mutual friend.

Or, her going to places where you guys visited together.

These will trigger her brain to go into a spiral of thoughts about you.

You can also accomplish this directly by posting pictures and videos on your social media accounts.

When she sees you living your life and having fun with others, she is going to feel mixed emotions.

On the one hand, she is likely going to feel a little bit of jealousy.

On the other hand, she is going to miss you and feel the urge to contact you.

I still get messages from the girls I had been with years ago whenever I post new pictures on my social media accounts.

Each time you post pictures of yourself on your social media accounts, it is an opportunity for her to think about you.

So, don’t hesitate to capture some of your most awesome moments while you go about living your life, and post those on your social media account.

You will be glad you did when your phone becomes filled with messages from women who miss you.

Induce Strong Emotion to Make Her Miss You

Do you remember what you were doing during one of those historical moments in your lifetime?

For example, I am sure you know the exact time, the exact place you were at, and the exact thing you were doing if you were old enough during the 9/11 incident.

It is because hearing about the event aroused such strong emotion in you that everything that was happening around you at the time became permanently embedded into your brain.

This same exact principle can be applied to making a woman miss you.

When you are able to generate strong emotion in a girl, you become her “emotional crack”, and she is going to have a tough time not thinking about you when she is alone.

Women (and men) do most of what they do so they can “feel” alive.

Why do people buy stuff?

More often than not, they are hoping whatever they buy will make them feel good about themselves.

Why do people have sex?

Because they want to feel good.

When you truly understand that our emotion governs any and everything we do, you are going to understand your interaction with women on a much deeper level.

Strong emotion can be extremely addictive even if it is a negative emotion that is being aroused.

Why do some women stay in a verbally and physically abusive relationship?

They know it is extremely bad for them and nothing good will come out of it.

But, they still seem to struggle to let go of their abusive man for whatever reason.

One possibility is that these women have a very low sense of self-worth, and they secretly feel like they don’t deserve any better than being treated like dirt.

But another reason (which is more likely) is that they are hooked on that extreme emotion despite it affecting their life in an adverse way.

Do you ever notice how depressed people always seem to find a way to remain depressed?

It is as if they are addicted to “looping” (Playing over and over again) those depressive thoughts in their brain.

It is extremely easy for your brain to fall into that trap of engaging in self-pity and negative self-talk.

In fact, it’s much easier to wallow in your own misery rather taking responsibility for the situation at hand and doing something to improve your situation.

And that is precisely what a lot of women do when they are in a toxic abusive relationship.

They know it’s bad for them, but they just can’t bring themselves to stop indulging in that bad addiction.

She understands it is destroying her life, but she can’t help but miss that rollercoaster of emotion at the same time.

I advise you to refrain from using any of abusive manipulation tactics to get a woman hooked on you.

Not only are you going to damage her, but you are also going to destroy yourself by engaging in these terrible behaviors.

Unique Gift to Make Her Miss You

Giving her a unique, memorable gift can be one way to make her miss you.

She is likely going to think about you whenever she looks at your gift.

And it is never a bad thing for her to think more about you.

When your mind pays more attention to something, your mind starts to think, “This must be something important since I keep thinking about it over and over again”.

By the same token, the more a woman thinks about you, the more she (or her brain) will start to convince her into believing that she must really like you and miss you.

Let’s sum up the article now…

So, the entire aim of anything you do to make her miss you comes down to getting her to think more about you when she is not with you.

As we have already talked about, her brain is not going to spend any significant portion of time thinking about you if everything you do and say is predictable.

Her brain will become infinitely more engaged when she is constantly presented with contradicting pieces of evidence from you.

It is just like watching a movie.

When you have no idea how the ending is going to turn out, then you feel that itch to watch until the very end to find out what happens (Even if it is a bad movie…).

On the other hand, if it is a movie you’ve watched tens of times, then your brain will routinely disengage during the course of the movie.

So, become that movie that she can’t help but to finish until the end, and make her miss you like crazy!

About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.

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