In this article, you’ll learn the two most ground-breaking principles that will transform your text game forever.
So let’s get right into it.
How to be funny over text
Before I give you any specific examples, I first want you to keep this in mind.
Do not send her long text with jokes or try to be overly witty over text.
I’m speaking from experience, and it just doesn’t work that well in most cases.
You don’t want to send her a long text message because you want to make it easy for her to read your text.
She’s more likely to disregard your text if you send her a long text message. This is especially true in this day and age of social media where people can hardly focus for more than a few seconds.
You also do not want to force jokes over texts because it’s impossible to convey the tone and time the joke right over text.
And your tone and timing are crucial for making funny jokes.
So, how then do you make a girl laugh over text?
Your best bet is to text her something that is relevant to her interest.
Is she into cute little puppies?
Send her a link to a youtube video of little puppies doing stupid things.
Is she into lifting weights?
Send her a video of gym fail compilations.
This also allows you to seamlessly transition into teasing her.
For example, let’s say you send her a video fo gym fail compilation.
You can then tease her over text by saying something like, “Please tell me you are not like the girl in that video. I would be too embarrassed to hang out with you.”
When you send a few funny videos like this that’s relevant to her interest, she’ll start to associate you with positive emotion she feels when she watches the video you sent her.
And this will make her much more responsive to your texts.
It’s also a lot less effort than trying to send her some witty lines over texts, which can often make you appear a tryhard.
How to make a girl smile with words
So, let’s talk about what else you can do to make her smile with words?
The key principle you need to keep in mind is to be random.
When we hear or see something that goes against our expectations, it often grabs our attention and makes us laugh.
Here’s one example I can think of off the top of my head.
Let’s assume you are not exactly the best looking dude in this scenario, and you text her the following line.
“Hey, I want to tell you something as long as you promise you won’t judge me”
She replies, “Sure.”
You then send her this reply.
“I know you’re thinking I’m way too handsome for you, but I assure you I’m not as perfect as you think I am.”
Pretty random and stupid eh?
Well, that’s exactly why she’ll laugh because it’s not something she would’ve expected you to say.
How to make her chase over text
Once again, it comes down to how relevant your text message is to her.
Most people are incredibly self-absorbed, so they love talking about something things that are relevant to them.
Here’s an example for you.
“Hey, there is this one thing I noticed about you. I’m not really sure if I should tell you though..”
This will instantly spike her curiosity, and you’ll instantly engage her.
So, why is this style of text message so good? These are your answers.
1. It actually gets her to reply to you. Nothing happens without her replying to your text.
2. It arouses a much stronger emotional response than regular texts, and she will start to think more about you.
3. She will be the one urging you to text her and tell her what it is. This gets her to start chasing you instead of the other way around.
You can then reply back with something stupid like this.
“Not sure if anyone’s ever told you this, but you have a beautiful mandible” (or whatever other dumb random texts you can come up with).
Just make sure you wait for her to reply to your first text before you send your second text.
If she finds you so emotionally irrelevant to the point she can’t even bother to reply back to your first text, then you are better off moving on from her.
It’s important she replies to your first text before you send a second one because you don’t want to be the only person eager to text her.
Most important principles of texting
1. The first principle is curiosity. I hope you realized the power of curiosity by now, from all the examples I’ve provided in this article.
Curiosity is a powerful trigger, and it is arguably the most powerful psychological trigger you can use to get a girl interested especially when she doesn’t know you well.
Whatever texts you send a girl, you want to think of ways you can get her curious about what you’ll send next.
Below is one example.
“I went to the mall yesterday and the craziest thing happened. I’m just glad I survived. How did your volleyball practice go by the way?”
When you send a text like that, the girl would naturally be curious to know what the heck happened to you at the mall, and there is a good chance she will ask you what happened.
If she does, then she’s investing more into the interaction, and she’ll be thinking more about you as a result.
2. The second principle is self-relevancy.
We’ve been talking about the importance of this principle throughout the article.
People are always curious about what others think of them.
Why do you think so many girls spend hours obsessing over which picture to post, or what filters to use on their social media accounts?
When you talk about something that is relevant to her interest, then you will have no trouble gaining her full attention even if she’s not yet attracted to you.
When you combine the principles of curiosity and self-relevancy, you will inevitably get great responses from girls.
Text her what makes you laugh
Lastly, if we are talking about the most correct mindset to adopt, this certainly would be it.
You want to ask yourself how you’d act if you had more women in life than you know what to do with.
How would you act If you weren’t so desperate for female attention?
Would you really go out of your way to put special effort into crafting a perfect text for one particular girl?
The answer becomes quite straightforward at this point.
I used to spend hours thinking about what to text a girl because I was so afraid I might say something stupid.
And to be honest, I did not feel good even when girls loved my texts because I was valuing their reaction more than I valued myself.
So, I want you to ask this question.
Is it really worth it for me to spend this much time and effort into coming up with what to text this girl?
If the answer is no, then I suggest you simply text her whatever you feel like texting.