How To Know If A Girl Is Interested

So, what exactly is the best way to know if a girl is interested in you?

In my opinion, finding her attraction signal can be divided into two categories.

One is an active way as in you actively do certain things to see what interest level she’s at.

And another way is a passive way as in she’s sending you all these signals of interest without you having to do anything.

I will go into more detail on “active” ways of gauging her interest level.

But, for this article, I will be strictly focusing on passive ways of assessing her signals.

Without further ado, let’s dive right in.

The first signal she may be into you is…

She always ends up near you

I remember before I started dating my first girlfriend.

We met at the gym and she always “somehow” ended up near me wherever I was.

Whether I was squatting in the squat rack… or deadlifting on the platform… or doing bicep curls.

You could always find her within my vicinity.

Well… the reason was pretty obvious.

She wanted to make sure she’s always near me in case I wanted to talk to her.

And that is honestly about as much as most girls are willing to go to show their intent.

It is still VERY rare in this day and age for any girl to ever approach a guy and ask for his number.

One or two times may be due to “chance”.

But if she consistently ends up near where you are, then there is a very good chance she’s sending you a signal.

Moving on…

The second hint she may be giving is if…

She asks you a lot of questions

I need to point out that this is not super black and white.

Because there are many girls that may be interested in you but are too shy to reciprocate.

Some girls get inside their “head” as much as us guys do when they are in front of guys they are attracted to.

But, generally speaking, girls will try to help you keep a conversation going by asking questions about you if she’s into you.

It is also just natural for her to want to know more… and be curious about you when she’s into you.

The third possible sign she may be sending is…

She keeps looking toward your direction

This is a no brainer as well.

We tend to look at things we like… or something that’s just weird.

So, unless you are obnoxious in your outfit or behavior, she is probably looking at you because there is at least some degree of interest.

If you catch her looking toward you or your direction multiple times, then it may be time to walk up to her and introduce yourself.

Another tell-tale sign is when…

Her body (feet) are pointing toward you

Just think about your own behavior.

Say you are in a group of four to five people along with a girl you are into.

If you pay attention to your body language in that instance, there is a good chance your body (and… or feet) is facing toward the girl you are into.

It is the same way with girls.

It is almost in our “nature” to gravitate toward someone that we find attractive.

So, you may be asking if there is that…

One absolute way to gauge her interest level

I am sorry to break it to you but…

There is no one sure-fire method to know if a girl is interested or not.

And that is WHY…

You just need to take the plunge and simply go for it.

You obviously do not want to be asking every girl out just because you find them “somewhat” attractive.

Especially in a social setting because you will soon be known as “that” guy who goes around creeping on every girl.


If you REALLY like the girl… and you’re not sure if she’s quite into you or not… then it really is just time to make that move.

Trying to analyze and assess every little detail will just take away from your confidence… and it will just make it more difficult for you to man up and ask her out.

On a side note…

Here is a dirty little truth that many inexperienced guys aren’t aware of…


They may understand it “logically” but they never truly understand how “true” it can be.

And that is…

Many times, girls will get with you even if you don’t exactly fit her type.

As ridiculous as it may sound, many guys who are inexperienced with women often forget that girls are human just like us.

They get lonely… they get horny… they crave for that affection even if it may be just for one night.

And if you happen to be at the right place, at the right time, then girls will often end up doing “things” with you.

Even if you significantly deviate from her ideal type of man.

Now… if you are saying. “Oh… but I refuse to ask a girl out unless she’s as interested in me as I am into her!”

Then, sure…

I can certainly respect that.

But I just want you to realize this one thing.

That you don’t necessarily have to meet all these crazy high standard you believe women require for you to have a shot.

Why do you think you see so many average guys with hot girls?

Do you think it’s because those guys somehow happened to be the girl’s “ideal” type?

The simple answer is NO.

They just happened to be near the girl when she needed (or wanted) a man in her life.

She was lonely enough at the time she was willing to “settle” for those guys.

Because that was an easier route than waiting for another several more years for her ideal man to approach her.

And there really is just ONE thing that I want you to take away from this.

That is…

If you find someone attractive, then take your shot without over-thinking.

Because you truly never know what may happen.

She may very well end up being someone who you will split half of your net worth with in the future.

Anyway, that’s it for today.

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About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.