So you are wondering what exactly is the best way to impress a girl and sweep her off her feet.
Let me first just say that it’s very nice of you to be looking for ways to “impress” a girl.
And my response may not exactly be the answer you were looking for…
But I believe it’s better to be told the truth than to be given a “feel-good” answer that gets you nowhere.
Let’s discuss one thing before we go any further.
You may have different ideas in your head when it comes to impressing girls.
Maybe it’s doing a backflip in front of her.
Maybe it’s getting up on the stage and performing for her like a rock star.
Maybe it’s solving a super complicated problem in quantum physics class to show off your superior intellect.
The truth is, all of these can most certainly impress her under right circumstances (Yes.. even solving quantum physics problem)… as long as what you do (or perform) is in alignment with what she considers impressive from her worldview.
Here is one big problem with many guys, however.
They engage in these activities with the “intention” of impressing the girl.
When your intent is to impress a girl, it just automatically becomes a lot less impressive in her eyes.
On the other hand, if you are just completely engaged and focused in whatever activity you doing… and she happens to be part of the “audience” who admires you – then that will have a much stronger impression on her.
Just imagine a guy all huffing and puffing and grunting before he is about to lift heavy weight.
He just looks like a goofball to most people no matter how much weight he lifts.
People’s attention get diverted into his “try-hard” pre-ritual rather than being solely focused on the impressive weight he’s moving.
You “trying” to impress her have much of the same effect.
There certainly is a way you can successfully accomplish this without coming off as a try-hard – which you will soon discover.
And that is to…
Have someone else talk about your awesomeness.
It is gazillion times better for someone to praise you about your accomplishment – than to say it with your own mouth.
It is in our very nature to trust second-hand opinion over the words that are spoken directly from the source (aka you).
Say you have some noteworthy achievement that would impress most people.
If you are out at the bar talking to girls with your friend – have your friend talk about that achievement of yours.
Your friend just needs to make sure he says it in a way that doesn’t seem “pre-planned”.
Otherwise, both you and your friend would just appear to be try-hards.
Not all hope is lost, however, if you have no friends to testify your awesomeness for you.
And that is to use the power of…
When you tell a girl you have a Ferrari, you are a try-hard.
But when you simply “embed” the fact you own a Ferrari into your story – it doesn’t sound so try-hard anymore since it was just “part” of the story.
And as a bonus, her brain would start spinning faster with curiosity…
What does this guy do to own a Ferrari?
I wonder if he’s rich..
He probably has so much other cool stuff too… etc etc.
You get my point.
It’s always a good thing when the girl starts getting more curious about you.
Because her mind will start to fill with images of you… and you will soon be occupying all her attention.
As I had mentioned several times in my other articles, nothing happens without first grabbing her attention.
But what if you are in a relationship?
What I’m about to tell you may not be the most politically correct thing to say but it simply is the reality.
Whatever you do to impress her, too much of good thing will eventually have a diminishing effect (An effect that reduces in strength with each exposure).
It almost sounds ridiculous to have to play “game” with your girlfriend – but that may very well be exactly what you have to do if you are so accustomed to having a “nice guy” mask on all the time.
Actually, let me rephrase that…
Don’t play games with her, just completely be your authentic self.
You surely can’t be swamped with positive and inspiring emotions all the time if you are human.
By always showing only the nice side of you in front of her – you are essentially being fake and not being yourself.
Once she knows that you are not just nice to her for the sake of being nice, then whatever you do to impress her – whether it be buying her a gift or doing her a favor – will actually mean something.
If, on the other hand, you only shower her with positive emotion, she will soon not feel any sort of “emotional high” from whatever you do for her.
I want to end this article by emphasizing the point I talked about earlier.
That your goal should never ever be to impress her.
It’s one thing to do something for a girl because you genuinely love and care for her.
It’s totally another thing to do something with the expectation of “impressing” her.
The fact you even have that word lingering in your head shows that you are chasing for the girl’s validation.
It would be in your best interest to completely eradicate that word from your head.
Instead, focus on how you can be your most authentic self which, in turn, will allow you to form that unbreakable connection.
Anyway, that’s it for now.
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