I first want to start off by congratulating you for asking the right question.
It sickens me to see attractive guys – deserving of a much better partner – settling for a girl who is not even remotely compatible with him both in terms of personality and looks.
What exactly is the point of spending all that time and effort to become an attractive guy… if you are going to be fine with having an average relationship with an average girl?
Don’t get me wrong…
I’m not saying looks are all that matter. In fact, a girl’s personality is just as important as her looks, if not more.
I just want you to reach a point in your life where you do not ever have to lose your sleep over… whether you’ll ever be able to find that girl of your dreams.
There is only one goal I want to accomplish this article.
If I can provide you with even one useful tip that will serve to spark that initial attraction from the girl you want… I will be a happy man.
And I have no doubt you will find that hidden gem in this article if you are willing to listen.
On a side note, I will reveal THE most powerful trigger that will instantly make her want you – even if you are not her dream guy – at the end of this article.
So, load up on your caffeine and get ready..
With that being said, let’s get right into it.
My first advice is to..
So, what exactly do I mean by being a cool guy?
It’s one of those terms everyone loves using… but nobody really knows what it means when it comes time to define what it really means.
Usually, the coolest guy in the room is the guy who cares the least about another person’s opinion about him.
He is unafraid to fully express himself to the world… because he has a strong positive assumption that the world will respond back favorably.
He is also the one who causes another person to react… rather than being the one who is constantly reacting to his surroundings..
So, what do I mean by all this in a practical sense?
Don’t hold back on expressing your thoughts or beliefs.
But don’t be an asshole about it by trying to put other’s thoughts and beliefs down.
Do, however, maintain your stance if you believe in something. If you think Trump is awesome then tell her that… and elaborate on what’s so fascinating about Trump.
If you think every girl should have sex with whoever they want to without fear of judgment… then tell her that.
If you articulate yourself well enough, you can almost get away with saying whatever you want.
She will quickly realize you are not like every other guy that always puts that fake front just so they have a shot (at least they believe they do..) getting into her pants.
Even if she disagrees with you, she will develop a great deal of respect for your authenticity.
I do need to point out that this can very well backfire if you are not yet proficient at articulating your position.
The point is to articulate your position in a light-hearted manner… without falling into a trap of getting into a long drawn argument.
If she disagrees with your view, simply reply to her with some completely illogical joke.
For example, she tells you she hates Trump.
You can reply to her saying, “Trump did eat my puppy a while back so I understand why you’d feel that way”
You’re almost “accepting” her view but in a completely exaggerated and illogical way… so she understands you are not serious.
At the same time, you are not adjusting your view to hers. You are simply empathizing with her in a way that does not make sense whatsoever.
This prevents any possibility of conversation turning into a serious political debate – which is the last thing you want to do with a girl.
This type of approach will serve to demonstrate all the right qualities about you while not letting the things go off tangent.
Anyway, moving on to the next point…
The person, who is in his head, has a tough time noticing things about another person.
The fact you can freely tease her and make comments about her demonstrates that you are the more carefree person in this interaction.
This will get her used to reacting to you as opposed to you reacting to her.
Whoever gets the other person to react usually is in charge of the interaction.
This will also allow you to lead the interaction in the way you desire without much friction.
So some examples…
If you notice she blinks a lot, tell her it’s cute how she blinks so much.
Then show your empathy by telling her you completely understand it’s not so easy talking to an attractive guy like you (with a cheeky smile…).
If she says she likes going to the gym, you can say something like…
“Please tell me you are not one of those girls who only go to the gym to take pictures for your Instagram (Once again… with a smile).”
Anyway, you can really say whatever the fvck you feel like saying as long as you keep the basic principles in your mind.
What I’ve talked about so far are all great tactics but…
There is one trigger that triumphs above all
And it is this…
Jealousy… is one powerful frigging trigger indeed.
If you can make the girl think all the other hot girls love you… she will often want to fvck you just for that reason alone.
It’s such a deep-rooted desire within us to attain something other people desire.
This powerful trigger becomes supercharged even further if she perceives the girls you are with as more attractive than she is.
Sleeping with you would automatically mean that she’s more attractive than all these other girls who want you but can’t get with you… because you’re a man with a high-ass standard (let’s just pretend you are… for the time being… just to make a point).
So, how do you apply this in real life?
There are a few ways to go about this.
The simplest way is to post a picture of you with some stunning girls on your social media.
Every girl loves creeping on their friends on social media.
When she comes across your picture with two hot ass girls in each of your arms… she will start feeling the type of emotion she didn’t even know she could feel toward you.
The second way is more effective but does take a little more skill to pull it off..
Simply show yourself having a great fun interaction with other hot girls when she’s near you.
It will create strong emotion in her because she will subconsciously wish she was the one getting all the attention from you.
It will also likely make her feel self-conscious (If you have already built a bit of rapport with her)… by the fact you chose to talk to the other girl over her.
Whatever emotion you arouse in her, it’s great because you are now getting her thinking about you.
Remember, the more we pay attention to something, the more we start believing it must be important.
You’ll grow in her mind like a little teenage boy who just hit puberty.
Soon, she’ll be fantasizing about getting dominated by your little (or big if you are one of the lucky mo-fos) tootsie roll.
Anyway, that’s it for today.
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