So, what should you do when she’s lost interest?
It is important to identify why she’s lost interest.
Not only is an accurate identification going to allow you to maximize your chance of getting her back, but it will also serve as a lesson for you to not make the same mistakes again in the near future.
Without knowing what’s caused her to lose interest, it is going to be difficult for you to identify the best course of action to take.
So, why do girls lose interest?
Let’s talk about some of the most common mistakes that men make.
You’ve shown too much interest
It is a mistake if you’ve shown too much interest.
I truly wish things weren’t that way, but it is in our very nature to not value things that are constantly given to us without us having to work for them.
These are some of the common things that men do that communicate too much interest.
1. Texting a girl way too frequently.
She is going to feel like you are always available for her.
When she feels you are always going to be there for her at all times, she is not going to value you no more.
A girl doesn’t want a man whose entire life revolves around her.
When you constantly shower her with your attention (especially when she doesn’t deserve it), she is not going to value your validation any longer.
2. You compliment her all of the time
Your words will lose their meaning when they are repeated over and over again.
Giving her a nice compliment every now and then can certainly be effective.
But, not when they are handed out to her like candy.
It is important to find a balance between compliments and teasing (you can also think of it as push and pull) when you talk to a girl.
Anything that is done too much will lose its effectiveness.
3. You are always available
Do you show up whenever she wants you to show up?
Do you pick her up every time she needs you?
How can you expect a girl to value you when she can access you any time she wants?
You’ve shown too little interest
On the other hand, it is also possible for a girl to lose interest because you’ve shown too little interest.
If you are too detached from her, then she is simply not going to be getting enough attention from you for her to want to stick around.
You need to help her realize that you see her differently than any other girl you know.
The key is to let her know that you love her more than anyone you know, but you are also not afraid to walk away.
And that really is the key.
Your willingness to walk away.
If she can sense you are not going to look back when she does something that goes against your standard, she is going to appreciate your presence that much more.
So, it is okay to be affectionate and let her know how much you love her.
But, it is just as important for you to let her know when she does something that you are not willing to tolerate.
Is it over when a girl loses interest?
So, is it all over when a girl loses interest or is there any chance for you to get her back?
This entirely depends on the circumstance.
If she started seeing another guy…
Then, the chances are low she will come back to you.
Most girls do not want to date multiple men at the same time (although, there are some that are definitely into that).
If she is just experiencing a mood swing…
In this case, it is possible she may come back to you.
Many girls experience extreme mood swings, and she may not have been contacting you because she’s been feeling down.
So, once she feels better, she may want to see you again.
It is important you don’t act too needy during this period.
Otherwise, you will forever ruin your chances for the future.
If you broke her trust…
For example, if you cheated on her, then it is highly unlikely she will ever come back to you.
Once you lose a girl’s trust, it is extremely hard to regain it.
If you’ve made a fatal mistake in a relationship, such as cheating, it is better to move on and start afresh with another girl, rather than trying to hold on.
Even if you get back with her, she is constantly going to doubt you, and your relationship will be filled with fights and dramas.
Can you get a girl back who lost feelings for you?
The short answer is it is possible.
But, there are certain conditions that have to be met for this to happen.
1. You must have not burned the bridge by being needy and desperate during the period she didn’t contact you.
If you showed any signs of neediness, you would’ve effectively killed your chances with her in the future.
2. She should still somewhat like you.
If she’s lost every ounce of attraction for you, it is going to be difficult for you to turn things around.
So, it is important for you to not get to the point where she has no feelings left for you.
Once again, a great way to lose attraction is to give all of yourself to girls.
When a girl feels like she has you completely figured out, she will no longer find you interesting.
That being said, what exactly are you supposed to do to get a girl back when she loses interest?
The least effective way is to try to convince a girl over text messages.
You are limited with what you can express with words alone, so it is the most inferior way to change someone’s perception about you.
You will significantly increase your chance if you pick up your phone and call her. The important part is to keep things playful while demonstrating a complete lack of attachment for a certain outcome (i.e. your desire to see her).
The easiest way to re-gain her interest is to do it in person.
There are simply a lot more tools at your disposal when you are interacting with a girl in person.
You can use your words, vocal tonality, body language as well as facial expressions.
You can even play around with the feeling of jealousy by talking to an attractive girl near her.
But as always, I recommend you to go meet other girls when a girl doesn’t show interest.
You deserve better.