So what exactly is the best way to flirt with a co-worker?
In this article, I’m going to cover the best way to go about making something happen with your co-worker – without you potentially losing your job
I do have to warn you beforehand though…
You do not want to be hitting on your co-worker if you don’t even have a basic social skill yet – to come off as a normal, cool dude.
Being a creepy dude who is hitting on all girls at work is the best way to get your ass fired – and I am sure you don’t want that to happen.
So if you are lacking a basic pre-requisite social skill then I highly urge you to learn how to be more social at the club or a bar where there is at least some degree of anonymity.
With that out of the way, let’s dive right in…
The first thing to keep in mind is to…
People will quickly sense your agenda when you are caught only talking to girls at work.
On the other hand, you will be just known as that social dude if you talk to any and everyone at work – and that is exactly what you want.
Now you can talk to anyone you wish to talk to – and nobody will girl will ever think you are approaching her with a hidden agenda.
As an added bonus, it can work as a massive social proof if everyone loves talking to you at work.
When you talk to that girl you are into… she knows you can be talking to anyone else… but you chose to talk to her.
Your time spent with her will actually mean something to her at this point.
The second point I want to hit on is..
Just because you are at work, it doesn’t mean you can’t be playful and busting their balls.
In fact, that is a much better way to connect with others.
But, once again, you may have a difficult time pulling this off if you are lacking basic social skills.
Which is exactly the reason why you want to be practicing your social skill elsewhere – before you bring that bubbly personality of yours into workplace.
There are too many eyes watching.
And even if you are not exactly being overly physical, there is still a good chance words will spread quickly.
There is nothing to gain and everything to lose.
And make sure you…
Getting with the girl you want at work is not a fast game.
You need to play the slow game if you want to not ruin your chance and reputation.
What you CAN do, however, is to add her on social media.
Everyone is friends on social media these days – so it’s a very low-pressure close.
You can also check her social media to find out about her relationship status.
So, you may be asking..
Well.. all the magic happens at social events.
When there are social events at work, that is when you go for the kill (or number close).
When you arrive at the event, just greet everyone normally and start engaging her in a conversation.
Be sure to talk to everyone at the event… and whoever you talk to… make sure you guys are having the most fun out of everyone at the event.
You will stand out from everyone else and people will be looking forward to talking to you.
One thing you want to note… is to make sure you are the last person she talks to.
She will appreciate the fact that you chose to spend more time with her – given that you did all the previous steps correctly and portrayed yourself as a cool mofo.
And this is the part where all the “game” you had been practicing will finally pay off.
Draw her into a conversation and turn her into a slave of your words.
When people are starting to leave and you and the girl are the last people remaining, you can suggest if she wants to grab a drink somewhere else.
And you know what to do at this point if you’ve been reading my articles…
Before I finish off this article, I have a story I want to share that demonstrates the power of social proof.
This was when I had just gotten into a dental school – before I dropped out – and I had just moved into a student residence.
There was this orientation meeting at the building the first week I arrived there, and then a whole bunch of people went out to the club afterward.
When I got to the club, I went around talking to everyone (Both guys and girls) at the club from our building.
And everyone absolutely loved talking to me because I was just sharing positive energy with everyone there with no agenda.
All I did was to make sure I come back to talking to this girl I wanted – after talking to a whole bunch of other people.
And I could feel she was more and more receptive each time I came back to talk to her.
Long story short, I ended up hooking up with her the next day.
And I asked her what made her feel attracted toward me afterward.
She liked the fact I wasn’t clinging onto her the whole night like many other guys do (She was actually one of the few girls who had enough self-awareness to know what’s going on in her head unlike most other girls).
But If I had to pinpoint the most dominant force of emotion that drove her to want me…
It was jealousy.
Her desire for me grew stronger and stronger as she saw me having a blast with other girls.
And at that point, it didn’t even matter if I’m her “ideal” type (I don’t know if I was or wasn’t).
Even if I wasn’t, she would’ve (and did) fucked me just for the fact that all these other girls showed a massive interest in me.
So… be that socially savvy mofo who can give positive emotions to any and everyone he meets – that is how you win at this dating game while being a nice human being (not a nice guy).
Anyway, that’s it for today.
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