So, how do you find a good woman and does such a thing even exist?
Well, I’ve got the answer for you.
And I’m very certain it is the most reliable way to find a good woman.
But, before we talk about that
let me first start out by listing some of the characteristics that you definitely do not want in a girl if you want to be in a healthy monogamous relationship with her.
She texts you every 5 minutes
She always complains you are not spending enough time with her
These girls will just drain your soul and make you hate your life.
I actually thought this would be a great experience when I was a virgin.
Just imagine when you never ever had a girl in your life.
The thought of having a girl who’s always giving you attention and wanting to be with you all the time… it sounds pretty amazing, right?
Well.. Not really.
Let me just say when you don’t feel that same excitement you felt when you first saw her…
Those texts she sends you every 5 minutes will become the most annoying texts you will receive.
Many people have a differing opinion on this.
Some may even say, “What’s wrong with that..?”
But here is how I see it.
If the girl only has male friends and she gives you a BS excuse like “oh… I don’t like other girls because they cause too much drama etc” then that’s a big red flag in my opinion.
My ex-girlfriend used to say the same BS and she was the biggest drama queen.
Here’s the simple truth.
What you hate about others is your own reflection.
If your girl ONLY has male friends…
She’ll never admit it but she loves getting all the attention from her male friends.
And guess what..?
One of her male friends will be the first one to comfort her body and soul when you guys break up.
This one time I was traveling with my girlfriend. We were on the plane and I was sick as felt like my body temp is up at 45 degrees.
And this hoe kept accusing me of checking out flight attendant when I could barely keep my little Asian eyes open.
Once again, this is one of those things you think it might be cool if you never had any girl but it will quickly drain everything out of you.
When she constantly accuses you of checking out girls and trying to cheat on her.
So, let’s now talk about how exactly you can find that rare unicorn who will be by your side through all the ups and downs.
But here’s the truth.
And I really do believe this
Majority of girls will cheat under the right circumstance.
Just like how a majority of people will cheat on school exam to get into their dream school if it means they won’t get caught.
Doesn’t mean they will actually cheat… because many of them simply never encounter that right circumstance for them to feel that urge but a lot of them will.
So why’s that?
Is it because they’re all evil?
It is because most of them … and I mean both guys and girls just don’t have an actual “clear” standard of what they will or won’t allow.
And when you don’t have that clear standard, you will always be at the mercy of external influence.
When you borrow money from your family or friend, and you tell them you’ll pay back, you actually genuinely mean it at the time.
But when you have no way of paying back then you end up cutting contact with the person and go hide somewhere.
Because you never ever took time to really think about “why” it’s so important for you to pay that money back.
Simply thinking, “Oh..it’s because it’s the right thing to do” is not strong enough reason for most… to uphold their standard during tough times.
So, we know we can’t really find out about someone’s standard by just asking them.
Because most people will just give a BS answer that you want to hear.
So then, how else do you find out if someone’s trustworthy and reliable?
Here is ONE and ONLY reliable method that I know to accurately determine another person’s characters.
And that is to…
Observe the person’s behavior over some period of time.
Actions speak louder than words.
Environment triumphs over your willpower every single time.
There’s a reason why most successful people agree with, “You are the average of 5 people you hang out with”.
If she says you should trust her unconditionally but she goes out to the bar and a club 5 times a week then it is time to ditch her.
If she says you should trust her unconditionally but she only has male friends and always hangs out with them until 3 am in the morning then it is time to ditch her.
Even if she never had any intention to cheat in those scenarios… she will eventually fall… if she keeps exposing herself to a vulnerable environment.
Someone who’s trustworthy and self-aware enough realizes the power of environment and does everything he or she can to stay away from those negative environmental influences.
So do not ever let her guilt trip you into thinking you should trust her while she is getting hammered out at the club five times a week.
I personally made a mistake of falling into this trap during my first relationship.
Whenever she did something fishy, she always guilt-tripped me by accusing me of lacking trust and being jealous.
And I always ended up questioning if I’m really the one who’s at the fault.
So, learn from my mistake and be willing to walk away
Anyway, that’s it for today.
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