How to be more interesting to a girl

What is the best way to become more interesting to a girl?

Do you have to become as funny as a stand-up comedian, or do you have to impress her with your baller lifestyle?

Here’s the truth.

The bar is not set very high.

If you look at most men, most go about their days looking dead.

Most are miserable with no passion or ambition, and they suppress their stress with drugs and alcohol.

This means you don’t even have to be this amazing man with thousands of different things going for yourself to become interesting in a woman’s eyes.

For example, if you just have an interesting hobby, it is often all you need to stand out from the 90% of the men.

Let’s talk about some of the different ways you can become more interesting to a woman.

1. Have an interesting hobby

This is by far the easiest way to become more interesting to others.

When you have an actual hobby, you are miles ahead of another man whose hobby revolves around drinking a six pack on a Sunday night while watching a Football game.

It is best if your hobby is something that enhances you, whether it be your mental or a physical health.

Some examples include: going to the gym, yoga, meditation, reading books, and martial arts.

I highly recommend you to take up lifting because it improves your health and physique, and turn you into a more attractive male.

2. Become passionate with your career

Most people spend half of their waking hours at work.

If you spend those hours working on your passion, you will naturally emit positive contagious energy to others.

It is extremely rare to see someone who is passionate about his or her career, so you will instantly stand out in a girl’s eyes.

But, I understand this is easier said than done.

It is not easy to turn your passion into a career, so if you managed to make that happen, then you can count your blessings.

3. Become curious about things

You lose your spark when you stop becoming curious about things in life.

This is especially common as men get older.

They believe they’ve got life all figured out, and they block themselves from learning new ideas, and trying out new things.

Think about little kids for a second.

What do you think gives him or her that aliveness?

It is the fact that everything is new and exciting to them.

They are always learning about the new things every single day.

You want to adopt the same attitude toward life if you want to become more interesting to a girl.

If things in your life have become routine, then it is a good idea to change things up.

Your brain is not going to light up anymore if you are not constantly learning or doing something new.

And it is going to reflect in the way you carry yourself around others.

So, get curious about things and become the student of life.

4. And of course we can’t forget about making a girl laugh.

The more you make her laugh, the more she will find you interesting.

To be honest, you really don’t need to do much to make a girl laugh.

You do not need to be this witty person who always has perfect things to say.

The key is to spit out your jokes with confidence.

When you say your words like you mean them, people will respond to your words.

The opposite is true as well.

Even if you have the most perfect joke, girls will not find you funny if your delivery is whack.

Luckily, it is a lot easier to fix your delivery than to become witty with your words.

These are the most important points I want you to keep in mind when you deliver your words.

  • You want to keep your tone positive. If you tease a girl with a serious tone, she may get offended. Your tone needs to clearly communicate to a girl you are just teasing her.
  • Say it with confidence. Don’t hesitate or mumble when you say something. Blurt it out and believe others will find it funny too. Think of it as spitting words out of your mouth. You first need to believe what you are about to say is funny before you can make others laugh.
  • Do not look for a girl’s reaction after you say your words. Don’t say the words and stand there in silence while you wait for a girl to laugh. There is nothing more unattractive than a man who constantly seeks approval from women. If she didn’t laugh at your joke, then simply move on and talk about something else instead of continuously trying to make her laugh with the same lame joke.

How to be interesting to a girl over text

There is only one way to be more interesting to a girl over text.

It is not sending her bunch of cat and dog videos, nor is it sending her cheesy memes.

You do, however, want to spike her curiosity with texts that are relevant to her.

Send her a text message with a gap in the information while making your texts relevant to her.

This is a surefire way to get her to chase you over texts.

You also want to avoid getting into a long conversation over text messages.

This will kill any curiosity she has for you.

Try not to reveal all of your cards at once.

Interesting topics to talk with a girl

When you are in a conversation with a girl, you want her to be talking for the most part.

So, it is important that you ask her good questions to get her open up, and take genuine interest in getting to know her.

But, here is what I want you to keep in mind if you are trying to come up with topics to talk about.

You want to find topics where both of your interests overlap.

It is, however, going to be difficult for you to actually care about what she says if her interest completely differs from your interest.

For example, it would be fake for you to pretend like you enjoy listening to her about her favorite make-up when you could care less about it.

This is why it is important to quickly find common interests.

If she is into going to the gym, and you also like going to the gym, then the conversation is going to flow naturally.

You won’t have to force your questions, and you will be able to relate to her experience on a deep level.

So, when you are having a conversation with a girl, focus your attention on finding topics that both of you enjoy talking about.

Not only are you going to find her more interesting, but she will also find you more intriguing.

If you guys don’t share any common interests, then it is probably time to move on from her.

How to be more interesting in conversation

I just want to emphasize this one point.

It is 90% about ‘how’ you say your words that make you appear interesting to another person.

Even the funniest joke is not going to make her laugh if your delivery is off.

You need to say your words with confidence. There should be zero hesitation.

You want to spit your words out in a way that clearly show you really don’t care about whether she finds you interesting or not.

This will actually make her become more interested in you.

You also want to focus on developing a nice ‘flow’ when you speak.

If your words don’t flow nicely, then it is easy for a girl to lose her attention as you speak.

Think of making your words sound like a nice, soothing music to her ears.

Anyway, I hope this article gave you a better idea of how to become more interesting to a girl!

About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.