I vividly remember the first time I asked this cute girl’s number.
Fortunately, she said yes.
But as I was entering her number into my phone, my hands started to uncontrollably shake in front of her.
It was probably one of the most embarrassing moments of my life.
Luckily, those are long-gone memories now, and I’ve learned a thing or two about getting a girl’s number.
So if you are looking for a way to ask a girl’s number, then this article will most certainly help you with that.
Let’s get started.
How to ask a girl’s number online
I want to start with topic because there is a good chance you have her contact on your social media account even if you do not have her number yet.
But, this rule I’m about to tell you holds true in most cases.
You will have an easier time getting a girl’s number when it makes sense for her to give you her number.
She’s unlikely to say no if everything feels natural leading up to you asking for her number.
So, you have to give a girl good enough reasons if you want to get her number.
Let me clarify this with examples.
Before you even ask a girl’s number, you want to set up a plan to do something together.
When you guys plan to meet in the future, it only makes sense for you guys to exchange contacts.
Doing this will also help reduce a lot of potential headache of going back and forth over text to schedule a date.
But even this may be a difficult task if you are inexperienced with girls.
In such a case, I recommend you follow my advice in the next section.
Be direct when you ask her number
There’s no need to complicate things.
Just simply ask her number without setting up a date first.
In my opinion, this is not the best way to ask a girl’s number because there’s no plausible reason for her to give you her number unless she’s very attracted to you at first sight.
It can also be a pain in the butt to set up a date over text even if you manage to get her number.
Nonetheless, it’s better to not overcomplicate things especially when you are inexperienced.
You will just get stifled to do anything when you complicate things too much.
And doing something is certainly better than doing nothing.
Don’t overthink, and simply say the line below.
“Hey, let’s hang out sometime. What’s your number?”
Do not ask her number
Instead of asking her number, add her on your social media account if you have a great social media account.
Girls love to stalk people on their social media accounts, so you can bet she will be checking out your profiles.
And your cool profiles and pictures will come in handy when she stalks you.
When she sees in your pictures that you do a lot of cool things with your life, your values will increase in her eyes.
If, however, you appear to barely have any friends, and do nothing with your life, then you’re obviously better off getting her number.
What if she rejects you?
When you ask a girl’s number, you may come across a few different objections such as…
1. I have a boyfriend
2. I don’t give out my numbers to strangers
3. I don’t even know you.
So, what would be the ideal way to respond?
I know some like to use cute little lines like the ones below when a girl says she has a boyfriend
1. Me too.
2. He can watch.
While saying anything is better than you just being flustered without words, there are certainly better ways to go about it.
Generally speaking, the best type of response is to flip the script on her.
Say she tells you she has a boyfriend.
Give her a little smirk and tell her that it’s quite assumptive of her to think that you already want her as your girlfriend.
Then tell her there are at least 12 different requirements a girl has to meet before you decide you’ll commit to her.
You then transition into talking about something else.
If she initially lied about having a boyfriend and sees that you’re a cool dude after talking to you for a little longer, she may very well willingly offer you her number.
The last thing you want to do is get into this whole verbal match about why she should give you her number.
If you think the girl actually has a boyfriend, then I suggest you move on.
There’s plenty of fish in the sea, and you have no reason to waste your time on someone who’s already in a committed relationship.
How to ask a girl for her number on tinder
The same principle applies in this scenario. Give her a reason to give you her number.
For example, tell her that you have this incredible ability to accurately guess what city someone is from within 10 seconds of hearing the person’s voice.
You then ask for her number, so you can prove it over the phone.
Your guess doesn’t have to be correct. You can just play it off by telling her that you’re having an off day if you get it wrong. You then just transition into talking about something else.
If you want to build rapport fast with someone, it’s a lot better to talk to him or her on the phone over texts.
You’ll also stand out in her mind because it is a lot rarer for people to get on the phone in this day and age.
As an added bonus, it’s a lot harder for a girl to reject you over the phone. So, you’ll buy yourself more time to build a connection.