How To Arouse A Woman

“Hm.. I’m going to bend you over and f… you like a little w…. you are and you will be begging for more as you feel my rock hard c… filling up your tight little wet p…”

Probably not exactly something you would expect to hear from a dude who’s been a virgin for 26 years and only one girl until he was 28 eh?

Especially when we are talking about a random girl he just met 3 minutes ago.

As crazy as it sounds, that’s exactly what I did.

In fact, I’ve gotten so good at arousing girls (even random girls I just met) in such a short period of time that even some of my natural friends wondered what the hell I’m saying to these girls on many occasions.

In this article, I’m going to talk about what you can do and the mindset you can adopt so you can become the guy who can arouse even asexual girls.

Arousing her with proximity and eye contact 

This is one of those simple little things that are brutally effective yet takes a very little effort to implement.

Stare at the girl deep into her eyes while you are standing a few inches away from her. Just by her feeling your masculine energy in close proximity is often enough to get her juices flowing.

Many inexperienced guys get caught into a trap of thinking girls absolutely hate guys who overtly talk about sexual stuff or give off too much sexual energy.

Often, the cold hard truth is that girls hate it when YOU talk about that stuff. Just think about how much you would hate it if some overweight ugly girls were to talk about how she would do dirty things to you.

But, for girls it’s not so much the appearance but rather your weak feminine energy that completely turns them off.

They don’t want some weak beta male (I’m not talking in a physical sense but rather the energy you emit) pretending like he’s an alpha sexual male. The girl wants to know that you actually are that strong and grounded male who is not ashamed of his own sexuality and have zero issues with expressing it.

When you can truly own that identity at your core then girls will accept your frame and will be more than ecstatic to participate in whatever dirty shit you want to talk about with her.

So, do not ever be afraid to stare deep into her eyes and communicate with your eyes how much you are aroused by her.

Arouse her with your voice 

Let’s discuss how you can arouse her with the way you talk in this section.

So, what are some traits of attractive voices?

There’s no question that having a lower and deeper voice tend to arouse women better than squeaky high pitched sound as the former imitates sexual energy more closely than the latter.

Does that mean you’re fucked if you don’t have a sexy deep voice?

Not really. That’s just one component that makes your voice sexually appealing.

So what are some other ways that you can actually change and improve to make your voice more sexually appealing?

1. One way is to slow down your voice. Slow down the speed at which you talk. This gives a much more sexual undertone to your voice.

2. The second way is to not be afraid of pauses. There’s nothing else that builds sexual tension better than strong eye contact with a prolonged pause. Make sure to play around with this as the girl gets more invested into a conversation and feels more comfortable being around you. Don’t do this when she’s already feeling awkward around you as it can easily backfire.

Dirty-talk.. one of the more under-utilized ways to arouse her

I always thought dirty-talk is one of those things that most guys do to arouse girls they sleep with.

But, I was surprised to find out this wasn’t quite the case when I started talking to some of my friends about what they do in bed.

When a few of my friends tried incorporating a dirty-talk following my advice, they were surprised to find out just how effective it can be at arousing girls.

Sex is much more about mental stimulation than just physical stimulation. If you can stimulate her mind with your tongue (no, I’m not talking about physical stimulation with your tongue), then, you will literally be able to arouse her on demand.

So, what exactly should say to arouse her?

This is fundamentally a flawed question and I’ll explain to you why.

When you are dirty-talking, it’s much more important to say what arouses YOU than focusing on what arouses her.

This is a simply a matter of emotional transference.

Even if you are not exactly talking about the type of sexual topic that she’s normally interested in, she will become aroused simply from the transference of your emotion.

Obviously, you do want to use a little bit of common sense and stay away from talking about certain things if they are completely whack even if you may be aroused by those.

Commit to what you say or do..

Being uncertain is the best way to turn a girl off. There’s no masculinity in uncertain actions.

Whatever you do, make sure you do it with full certainty.

If you are dirty-talking, fully commit to what you are saying and say it like you mean it. If you are pulling her hair or spanking her hair, then do it like you fucking mean it.

As with any attraction triggers, your energy triumphs over any specific things you do or say.

So what exactly did I do to arouse women within 3 minutes of meeting her?

Two guys can say or do exactly the same thing but she will be repelled by one guy while she loves the other dude.

Many guys say it’s just about looks but that’s not quite true.

So, what gives?

I remember this one time when me and two of my friends brought a girl back to my place. She ended up blowing all three of us and told us it was an awesome experience and she had so much fun.

A few days later, I see her post on social media talking about how she’s been sexually harassed by creepy guys at the club in the past (at the time of the #metoo craze), and that men shouldn’t engage in any behavior that will make women feel uncomfortable.

So, what made her enjoy the experience of blowing three guys in a row she just met 30 minutes ago at the club while she was compelled to shame guys who hit on her at the club?

It’s the fact that me and my friends completely owned our sexuality. We had zero shame in expressing our desire and she accepted it.

Meanwhile, most guys that try talking to girls or show their desire do it in a half-assed way that screams uncertainty.

If you don’t believe in the things you do or say, what makes you think the girls will? 

If you can cultivate a belief (which is usually true) that girls love sex and love guys who are not ashamed of expressing their sexuality, then you will never end up being the type of guy a girl writes #metoo about.

Anyway, that’s it for now.

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Till next time..

About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.