You are sitting at a coffee shop on your lunch break. Sipping on your black coffee as you normally do.
As you briefly glance over your surroundings, your eyes meet with this gorgeous girl with blonde hair and blue eyes.
You know enough about attraction at this point to realize it’s a big no-no to break your eye-contact when a girl is giving you the “look”.
So, you hold your eye contact…
You are convinced you’re going to need CPR soon. Your eye muscles make a little involuntary vibration against your own will. Your vision becomes blurred.
Yet, you still hold your eye contact…
And then you see her smiling brightening up the whole room.
You think to yourself… this is how the disciples of Jesus must have felt when he came back to life.
But, now what..?
Do you let this opportunity pass you by as you have always done with countless other girls?
Or do you actually get the fvck up and make something of this opportunity for once in your life?
But, you are different this time. You are going to get up and confidently present yourself to the world that you are the man who has balls to go for what he wants.
There is one problem, however.
That is, you just don’t have a frigging clue what to talk about with her.
And THAT is the entire point of this article.
So, you know EXACTLY what to talk about when you meet the girl of your dreams.
I would’ve fulfilled my goal if I can even contribute a little in helping you get with that dream girl of yours – the girl who will bear two of your children and own fifty percent of your net worth – with this article.
So, if you are excited about that idea, let’s dive right in…
The first point I want to make is to…
As I emphasize over and over, it’s your energy that matters THE most on how the other person feels about you.
The energy you put out (or your vibe…) becomes incredibly restricted when you are in your head.
And this is precisely the reason why it’s important to talk freely without judging anything you say. It’s not because you just want to be talking to fill in that awkward silence.
Rather, it’s so you can free yourself and your energy to effortlessly flow to another person
The more time you spend in your head, the harder it will be for you to express yourself in a free, authentic manner.
You need to keep your goal simple and straightforward when you are talking to girls.
Whatever words or sentences that pop up in your head, practice letting it come out of your mouth before your “judgment brain” kicks in.
Train yourself to talk reflexively…
You are going to say some weird shit. You are going to say stupid shit. You are going to feel embarrassed at some of the things you say.
Over time, you’re going to suck less. The things you say will make more sense even without you over-thinking it.
And eventually, you will reach a point you will suck so less that most things you say will be gold.
By then, people will just assume you’ve always been that guy who’s blessed with ability to talk…
While the first point is important, this one is just as important but I barely hear anyone talking about.
For you to spit out gold from your mouth, you need to…
Do you want to be able to talk in a way that persuades and inspires another person to take the action you desire?
Then, you need to keep exposing yourself to those that inspire.
Think about the times when you were completely obsessed with something. Maybe, it’s cars. Maybe, it’s lifting. Maybe it’s sex.
When you met your friend or family, what did you want to talk about during that period obsession?
You most likely just wanted to talk about whatever you were obsessed with at the time.
And that is just how our mind operates.
You default to whatever you are exposed to most frequently when your brain is flowing freely.
If all you do is consume garbage information throughout the day, then you will default to those thoughts most frequently during a conversation.
I do want to emphasize, however, that you will still get girls by talking about complete nonsense if you let yourself talk with no judgment.
Because girls are primarily attracted to your energy as we had discussed earlier, and your energy shines through when there is the least amount of restriction.
If you want to become the ultimate version of yourself, however, you want to start working towards filling up your mind with healthy stuff.
It’s the same as lifting. You can make very good progress if you train consistently even with sub-optimal nutrition. But, dialing in your diet will expedite your progress by tenfold.
So, here’s my suggestion.
Do you want to be able to talk in a way that motivates someone?
Fill up your mind with those inspirational books.
Do you want to be so funny that you can even make the bitchiest girl laugh?
Fill up your mind with funny ass shows.
Whatever you aspire to be (it’s your job to figure that part out…), become obsessed with it.
Those two main points I discussed in this article are really the only two points you need to master to become a verbal God.
Anyway, that’s it for now…
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