So you think girls don’t like you?
No worries… acknowledgment is the first step to progress. You can only go up from here.
On a brighter note, you probably have a better self-awareness than me when I first started talking to girls.
I genuinely believed I’m an attractive dude who ended up as a twenty-six-year-old virgin… simply due to unfortunate circumstances.
It’s actually quite funny how I came to realize how repelling my energy must have been to girls..
I only came to this realization when two of my best friends mentioned… that they genuinely thought I’d never get a girlfriend… when I first introduced my girlfriend to both of them.
As with anything and everything you want to improve in life, the first step is to have enough self-awareness – to realize there’s something that needs to be fixed.
With that being said, let’s dive right into some of the most common reasons why girls may find you repulsive.
And some action plans you can implement – to finally become the chick magnet you had always envisioned to become.
We will first start out with the things that you can actually change.
The first possibility is that..
Whether we like to admit it or not, every one of us judges each other based on appearance.
You need to accept that a girl can only form her initial judgment based on your appearance – as she doesn’t know anything else about you.
And we both have heard about the importance of first impression millions of times.
So, it would be foolish for you to not optimize your style for the best possible first impression… especially when it’s so easily within your control.
Here’s my two cents.
Have an unbiased look at your body type and look for clothing that best hides your flaws and show-off your positive attributes.
If you are still not convinced it will make any difference… let me just tell you this.
I’ve gone out with hundreds of guys in the past few years… and I’ve seen guys of all shape and sizes consistently get with hot girls.
This includes 5’4 Asian dude with average looking face and a balding forty-year-old dude.
But, I’ve never seen a guy get consistent results with hot girls – when he has a combination of not-so-attractive looks & poor fashion sense.
Anyway, moving on..
The second possibility is that…
Let’s define what we mean by “energy” because it doesn’t mean much without defining it.
Girls get a feel for what type of energy you have from – the way you look (as in how you look at her and people around you), the way you walk, and the way you talk.
Say you look down while slouching forward. You dabble when you walk with no clear sense of direction and purpose.
What type of message are you communicating to others when this is how you present yourself?
You are basically repelling people before they even get a chance to know you. Your lack of confidence is evident to the outer world.
Look forward and keep your chest open. Walk at your own pace while staying relaxed.
One simple trick is to imagine there is a string attached to the back of your head… and it is pulling your entire body up into the air.
Just imagine your body getting pulled up into the air as your entire body straightens and opens up.
You eat all your words instead of projecting them out.
It’s incredibly difficult to pay attention to someone who can’t project his or her voice out.
If the girl has to go out of her way to pay attention to even understand what you are saying… then she will quickly get tired of talking to you.
Contrary to what many dating coaches say, I don’t believe it’s necessary for you to talk loud.
But you certainly do need to speak out.
Many guys have what I call an “eating word syndrome”.
Their words just don’t come out of their mouth and kind of goes back into their throat, nowhere to be heard.
This will surely make you appear weak and unconfident in the girl’s eyes.
You look like you’ve just furiously masturbated to porn in the past 3 hours.
There is no potency in the way you look at others.
Don’t get me wrong… I’m not saying you should stare at other people like you are about to chop their head off.
But, you do need to learn to look deep into a girl’s eyes… if you want her to feel your masculine energy oozing out of you.
One good way to think about this is to keep your eye muscles (and eyelids) relaxed… while you look deep into her pupils.
Ok, next point..
It almost sounds ridiculous for me to have to talk about this, but I’ve seen so many guys fuck this up… although it is quite common sense.
You should take a shower.
You should make sure your breath doesn’t smell like shit.
You should make sure your feet don’t smell like a wet laundry left in the washer for three days.
I’ve most certainly seen guys get success (with average girls and girls below their league in terms of looks) despite not taking care of their personal hygiene.
But, if you want to consistently get with girls who are out of your league (in terms of looks), then it’s absolutely paramount for you to take care of this basic stuff.
No girl ever rejected a guy because he smells too fresh or his teeth look too white.
But the short answer is girls absolutely do prefer tall and good looking guys…. just like how most of us prefer girls with big ole’ mammaries and a nice round ass.
If everything else is the same.
Let me tell you a brief story…
Imagine if Calvin Murphy let his stats (5’9) define who he would become.
He never would’ve played in an NBA and never would’ve become the Hall of Fame.
And I can tell you with confidence it’s a LOT easier to find a hot girl who’s willing to date a cool 5’4 dude… than to become the Hall of Fame as a 5’9 dude in an NBA.
So you really have two options if you are not one of the lucky ones to win a genetic lottery just like most of us.
1. Keep complaining about how much easier it is for taller and good looking guys.
Live the rest of your life in that victim mode with a possible sudden realization on your deathbed…. that you actually could’ve done something to live a much more fulfilling life… if you simply made a decision to go after what you want.
2. Realize that each and every one of us has our own insecurities and shortcomings.
And all you can do is to put your focus on things that you can improve.
Acknowledging that you CAN indeed get the girl you desire… if you are willing to go the extra mile.
And almost taking joy in the fact that you are not born with a great genetic… because the victory tastes that much sweeter when you are the underdog.
I’ll let you decide who you want to become.
Anyway, that’s it for now.
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