What a gut-wrenching feeling it is to love someone, only to receive nothing in return. So, is there a magic secret to make a girl madly fall in love with you?
The truth is that there is no one magic bullet to make every girl you come across fall in love with you. There are things you can do, however, to convert a “maybe” or an “I kind of like him” girl into falling in love with you. The first step is to make her feel like she can talk about anything with you and relate to her with your own experience.
Let’s get started if you are ready to learn about the forbidden ways to make a girl magnetically fall for you!
Do not reveal everything about you. Make her wonder a little about what you are all about.
When you pour everything all at once, and she feels like there is nothing left to know about you, she is going to lose interest (That is, if you make this mistake before she has developed sufficient emotional attachment toward you).
Let me give you a little more concrete example to facilitate your understanding.
When a girl asks what you do for work, you can give her a little smirk and tell her, “I am not sure if I trust you enough to tell you that…”.
You will explode her curiosity by doing this, and she will start to incessantly chase you.
And it is never a bad thing to make women chase since it implies she is the one who is more emotionally invested in you.
There is no reason for you to feel bad about making a girl chase either.
This is practically what every woman does when they interact with guys.
In fact, you could almost say you are doing her a favor by being a guy who is able to help her experience the type of emotion she’s never experienced with another man.
In the example above, she will keep thinking about you even when you are not talking to her.
You are essentially going to be on “repeat mode” in her brain.
When she continually thinks about you, her brain will tell her, “Why are you thinking about this guy all the time? Oh, it must be because you like him”.
And her brain will “convince” her into believing she really likes you.
Over time, she will slowly but surely fall in love with you.
Pretty cool, eh?
When you talk to her, speak with no filter.
Talk about whatever that is on your mind without ever fearing her judgment.
Who are the people in your life that you can talk about anything with?
They are the people you are most close with, such as your family and best friends.
You ever hear a girl say, “I feel like I can talk about anything with him”?
You will make her feel that way when you talk with no filter.
Women can be extremely afraid that a guy may judge her for what she says or what she’s done in the past (especially if she likes the guy).
When you are speaking with no filter in your mind, you are essentially telling a girl indirectly that you do not judge others.
The very fact you are able to speak so freely, without the fear of her judgment, will communicate to her that you are a non-judgmental person.
And what women wouldn’t fall in love with such a cool, awesome, and non-judgmental person like you?!
When she doesn’t fear your judgment, she will feel comfortable to talk about any and everything she has on her mind.
Women love talking (in case you didn’t know).
And when you make her feel comfortable around you, she will go on and on until your ears bleed.
The more she talks (and reveals) about herself, the more she will start to feel like she has a stronger connection with you, although she may barely know anything about you.
And this is not so surprising if you understand the basics of the human mind.
People (not just women) love talking about themselves.
And when they feel like you are actually taking a “genuine” interest in what they have to say, they will feel strong attraction toward you.
And that “like” will slowly transition into her falling in love with you as she spends more time with you.
I do need to warn you, however, that you can’t skip the first part.
You can’t simply urge her to keep talking about herself from the get-go.
You do have to make sure you go “first” with speaking what is on your mind, so she feels comfortable with talking about herself.
And when you do this, she will be madly in love with you before you even realize.
Relate to her struggles with your stories.
As your conversation continues, she will be revealing about her past and struggles.
That is an opportunity for you to form that deeper connection by relating to her experience with your own experience.
Do not make a mistake of making your story the center of a conversation (remember people like talking about themselves?), but use it as a way to show that you are able to relate to what she has been through.
She will start thinking you are just like her, not on a superficial level, but on a much deeper level.
As much as some people like to preach about how opposites attract, the science is clear in that people are attracted to people who are like them.
And your ability to relate to her will make her think, “He is just like me”.
And that may very well serve as a catalyst for her to start falling in love with you.
This is another powerful way you can trigger her “love brain”.
When she shares her stories, think about the emotions she is trying to convey in her stories.
And describe her feelings better than she can describe them herself.
This obviously requires you to have a great degree of empathy, and you would have to have experienced similar things in life for you to be able to pull this off.
But, I can assure you this is one of the most powerful ways to make her fall in love with you.
Have you ever heard a girl say, “He just gets me…”.
This is how you make her feel that way.
It is incredibly rare for most women to meet a man who possesses such degree of emotional intelligence, and she is not going to want to let you go from her life.
This is a powerful way for you to essentially become her “emotional crack”.
Stop being so predictable when you talk to her.
Do you always compliment her? Stop.
Do you always tease her and make fun of her? Stop.
Anything that is done too much will lose its’ effect and power.
Most men make a mistake of being linear and predictable with their conversation.
A man, who usually talks in a formal way, continues to talk in a very formal way for the entire duration of his conversation.
A man, who makes a lot of jokes, continues to only make jokes when talking to women.
When you are predictable, you are no longer interesting.
When you are not interesting, you will occupy lesser space in her mind, and her feeling toward you will slowly fade away.
So, what is the solution?
Give her mixed signals.
You compliment her when that is genuinely how you feel.
You also let her know you are disappointed in her when she does something bad.
But, I do not want you to turn into a pick-up robot that “consciously” alternates between your positive and negative remarks, for the sake of giving her mixed signal.
Instead, I want you to just express exactly how you feel at that moment.
When you do that, you will naturally achieve that “push and pull” effect without coming off as insincere and fake.
I also want to point out that not only are you able to show mixed signals verbally, but you can also show this with your action.
For example, let’s say you give her your full attention when you talk to her. She might assume you must be really into her. But let’s say you act a little bored and disinterested the next time you meet her.
It is now near impossible for her to not think about how you feel toward her.
Giving her mixed signals lead to confusion in her brain.
Her brain will have to think extra harder to figure out what it is that you actually meant.
This obviously leads to you taking up a larger room in her mind.
But as I said earlier, I don’t want you to accomplish this by using it as a “tactic” to get her to fall in love with you.
I just want you to practice being your most authentic self, and let it happen as a natural by-product.
I thought about writing the title of this section as, “Spend More Time With Her”.
But, simply spending more time with a girl is often not enough on its’ own for a girl to fall in love with you.
Think about this for a moment.
If it was just about spending more time together, why then are there millions of friend-zoned men who waste hours of their lives with the girls that friend-zoned them, only to remain as the girl’s friends indefinitely?
Wouldn’t it make sense for girls to fall in love with them if “time” was the most important deciding factor in developing the feeling of love?
So, there has to be something else that is more important than time.
So, what is that?
And I would say, it is the experiences she shares together with you.
It is different experiences that you share with her (as a by-product of spending more time with her) that is going to make her fall in love with you.
She is going to experience a wide range of emotions as you guys share different experiences together.
And she is going to associate those feelings and emotions with you.
You are going to become her happiness, sadness, fun, anger, mystery, and so on.
And I’m not strictly talking about going to different places together or eating out together.
It can really be any and every experience that induces some sort of emotion in her.
It can be going to bungee jumping or skydiving together.
It can be watching a beautiful sunset together at the beach.
It can be being there for her when there is a tragedy in her family.
As you do more and more things together, you are going to be planting different seeds on the field of her mind.
Over time, these seeds will turn into plants that cover the entire field.
Sooner or later, most of her mind will become filled with all the memories you guys share together.
So, how can she possibly resist falling in love with you when this happens?
One thing you want to avoid is to put pressure on her.
While pressure and tension definitely do have their place in the process of arousal, attraction, and love, too much of it will make her run away.
You always want to maintain that balance between pressure and relaxation.
The process of falling in love is much like the process of making love to her.
The right amount of sexual tension may amplify her desire to want to have sex with you, but she is going to have to feel relaxed to experience orgasm.
You may attract her with your charisma and confidence, but you also want to be playful and carefree for her to feel relaxed around you.
This is why men who appear “too masculine” are usually not the ones who have the most success with women unless their masculine looks are balanced out with a charming personality (Because it is too much pressure).
Many men make a mistake of putting their entire focus on developing the traits that are traditionally considered to be attractive.
They focus on making good eye contact, talking with a deep tone, and walking with a good posture.
But, they fail to realize what matters just as much, if not more, is your ability to make her feel at ease around you.
When she feels relaxed around you, she is going to want to spend more time with you.
When she spends more time with you, she is going to start developing feelings.
And just like that, she is going to fall in love with you.
I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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