Easiest way to get Laid

You probably think the title of this article seems quite superficial.

Why should you care about getting laid with a girl, right?

Shouldn’t it be about the connection you build with her rather than obsessing over how you can get into her pants?

I certainly do agree that having sex with a girl feels a lot better when you have a genuine connection with her.

But, I would be a fool to deny the importance of releasing what accumulates in a man’s body.

A sexually frustrated man is not a happy man.

Now, this does not mean you have to go out and exploit an innocent woman who does not want to get physically intimate with you.

The good news is there are plenty of women out there who want to have fun with no strings attached.

So, if both of you and the girl have great times together, and there are no discrepancies in your expectations, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with having casual fun with a girl.

With that out of the way, let’s talk about the most efficient and the easiest way to get laid.

Use online dating to get laid fast

This is by far one of the most time-efficient way to get laid, but there is certainly a caveat as we will soon discuss.

Online dating is a great way to meet girls who want to have some quick fun.

Another advantage is that you have access to a massive number of girls at the touch of a button.

You are able to communicate with a girl prior to meeting her to make sure you guys are on the same page. This can reduce potential awkwardness that may arise when you see a girl in person.

But, here is the problem.

You are not going to have a lot of luck meeting attractive girls from online dating apps unless you are also very physically attractive.

Have you ever heard the saying that the top 20% of men get 80% of women?

While it is questionable how much of that is true in real life, it certainly rings true when it comes to the online dating world.

Girls simply do not know enough about you to make an informed decision apart from your pictures.

So, the world of online dating heavily favors those who are blessed with great genetics in regard to physical beauty.

This means online dating can either be the easiest or the worst way to get laid depending on the card you are dealt with.

If you happen to be lucky enough to possess a beautiful face and a nice physique, then I urge you to give online dating a try if you aren’t doing it already.

Just don’t make a mistake of filling your profile with selfie pictures as you will seem like a loner without friends.

Get a couple of good pictures that show your personality, and make sure you are well-groomed in the picture and wear clothes that fit, and you should be good to go.

Go to a bar to get laid

Truthfully, a bar is the best place to find a lover (no pun intended…).

A lot of men and women go to the bars to meet the opposite sex.

This doesn’t necessarily mean girls that come to the bar are all looking for an opportunity to meet someone.

You will still meet plenty of girls with boyfriends, or girls who just want to be left alone.

But all things considered, it is still one of the best places to meet single girls who are open to meeting a cool guy.

So, what should be your approach if your goal is to get laid?

If your goal is to have fun for just one night, your approach will be slightly different than if you were trying to find a girl you are truly compatible with.

The key to getting a one night stand from the bar is to find a girl who is down to have fun with no expectation.

Not every girl will jump at the opportunity to have a one night stand with a man she doesn’t know.

In fact, most girls are actually not too fond of the idea of going home with a man they barely know.

Many girls worry about things getting awkward. Their safety is also a real concern if they end up with a weird, creepy man since most women are physically weaker than men.

So, your focus should be on quickly filtering out the ones who are looking to have fun that night.

Initiate a conversation with a girl and find out what her plan is for the night.

If she is happy to talk to you, and she seems to be looking for ‘extra fun’ that night, it is a good idea to pull the trigger.

One of the most common mistakes that a lot of men make when it comes to finding one night of love is that they often spend way too much time with a girl who has no intention of hooking up.

This is fine if your goal is to socialize and have fun for the night.

But, it is a waste of time if you want to get hot and steamy with a girl you meet that night.

While there is a more elegant way of finding out a girl’s intention as you become experienced with women, this is what I recommend you do if you are not yet experienced with girls.

I want you to make it a rule to go for the kiss within 10 minutes of talking to a girl.

When a girl enjoys having a conversation with you and she appears to be into you, and she doesn’t mind you standing very close to her, it is time for you to go in for the kiss.

If she looks uncomfortable at any point or she backs off, then you should obviously stop immediately.

If you fail to read her cues and you continue to persist, she will categorize you as a creep.

So, it is important for you to always pay close attention to the cues that the girl gives any time you make a move on her.

If she is more than happy to kiss you back, then it is simply a matter of you inviting her back to your place for one more drink.

I want to emphasize this one point.

I want you to pay extra attention to make sure that the girl is not drunk.

The entire point (or so I hope) of you and the girl going back to your place together is for both of you to have great times together.

If a girl is drunk, and she decides to go back to your place while her consciousness is in an altered state, there is a good chance she is going to regret it when she wakes up the next morning.

Not only is it morally wrong to take a drunk girl back home, but you will also risk a lawsuit by consistently engaging in such behavior (no matter how much she seemed to be into you when she was drunk, her mood can drastically change when she sobers up in the morning).

So, do yourself a favor and encourage a girl to go back home safely if you notice she is drunk.

The mindset shift you need to make to get laid today

I want to talk about the most important mindset you need to adopt if you want to become the guy who naturally attracts girls that like to have fun.

You first need to realize that there are many girls out there who love the idea of having sex with an attractive man on the first date (or even within the first few hours of meeting him for the first time).

Many men wrongly believe they are ‘respecting’ women when they take things extremely slowly because they were raised to believe that women do not enjoy sex.

But, you are often doing girls a disservice by treating them with such an attitude.

You are unnecessarily putting a lot of burden on a girl to act like a good girl who hates sex (although she probably enjoys sex more than you do).

If you want to become a man who gets laid often, you need to realize (and believe) that a lot of girls love sex as much as men.

When you truly embody such a belief, she is going to sense your lack of judgment toward sex when she is having a conversation with you.

This will make it easier for her to be open with her sexual desire around you.

As a result, you will become a man who has no difficulty getting physically intimate with a girl within just a few hours of meeting her, rather than being a man who waits months until a girl finally gifts him with sex for being a good little boy.

And I don’t think you want to fall into the latter category if you are reading this article.

About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.