Do Pick Up Artist Tips Actually Work?

So you’ve made it your mission to become a master pick up artist in your lifetime… magnetically seducing girls just by giving a simple glance toward their direction.

Now, all you need is to learn a few pick up artist tips… and you will never have to worry about another lonely sleepless night filled with sadness and sorrow.

In this article, you will learn how you can use some of the more well-known pick-up artist tips to push her emotional buttons at your will.

But.. before we get into all of that…

You first need to ask yourself if that is REALLY what you want.

Let me just say this.

I was heavily immersed in the whole pick up artist world… and it was my first introduction to learning how to communicate with girls.

After having hung out a so-called “top pick up artists” in the industry, I’ve come to realize this one thing. 

That 99.9% of them are actually not very good with women (or just people in general) – apart from picking up club girls who are half unconscious.

Upon this realization, I’ve decided to completely dissociate my identity as a pick-up artist.

As some smart person once said, you become what you “repeatedly” do and say to yourself.

This is the reason why I do my best to stay far away from using the terms only PUAs use – Open, close, LMR, number close etc etc – unless I absolutely cannot think of any other better word to describe them.

On a side note, I am completely aware most of these terms are borrowed from sales… but pretty much only pick up artists use these terms to describe their interaction with girls.

Anyway, with that out of the way, let’s dive into talking about some of the more well-known pick-up artist tips in this article.

The first one is…

I’m probably a little too good for you… (Aka disqualification in pua term)

There are actually two ways you can go about this.

You can either disqualify the girl or disqualify your relationship with the girl.

One example of disqualifying a girl would be if you told her, “You are a little too young for me…”.

An example of disqualifying relationship would be to tell her, “I don’t think we should do anything tonight because I have a girlfriend”

Just don’t go full dummy mode and start bombarding disqualification on a girl who is not even that into you.

If you are completely emotionally irrelevant in her mind, disqualifying her probably won’t do much in most cases – and would most likely backfire.

Moving on…

I like you… actually I hate you (aka push and pull in pua term)

Hey… you are kind of cute (pulling her in…)… but… there are at least 3 more things I need to know before I take a girl out on a date (pushing her away…)

Need I explain any further?

By using a so-called “push-pull”, you are allowing her to experience a wider range of emotion… and it can certainly be a good way to spice up the conversation.

It is not, however, something that will make or break your interaction.

And the same idea applies as what I had mentioned earlier.

You want to make sure a girl is at least somewhat invested into the interaction – Not disengaged, asks you questions, contributing to conversation etc – before you start sprinkling these into your conversation.

Next one..

How do I know if she’s into me..? (aka indicator of interest in pua term)

I go into detail about this topic here. So check it out if you are interested in learning more.

I’ll keep this one short but there usually is no one single sign to know with 100% certainty that she’s into you (unless she’s rubbing your dick with her hand and begging you to take her home that is..).

The simplest and the most effective way is to just go up to the girl and ask her out.

But, I’ll list a few common signs that may indicate she’s interested in you.

1. She “somehow” always ends up within your vicinity

2. She looks at you with those puppy eyes (aka her pupils dilate).

3. She doesn’t mind when you take up her space and stand extremely close to her.

But none of what I have mentioned so far matters unless you…

Go talk to her… (aka open that target in pua term)

I can go into great detail on this topic.

But I already did so check out this article if you want to learn more.

If you want quick simple tips… then just remember these points.

1. When you notice her and you make up your mind to approach her, don’t fvcking dabble or act uncertain.

If she sees you dabbling before you go talk to her… you may as well not approach her because it’s pretty much game over at that point (one exception is if she sucks at reading social cues because she’s socially awkward herself).

Walk straight toward her like that has been your plan all along.

2. Maintain good eye contact for the first few seconds.

I’m not telling you to stare her down for the entire duration of interaction like a creep.

But it’s vital to hold strong yet relaxed eye contact for the first few seconds when you approach her.

She’s trying to figure out what you are all about by looking into your eyes.

If your eyes flinch or you look away, you will demonstrate all the wrong qualities that will repel her.

3. Put 90% of your focus on “how” you say things rather than “what” you say.

Have you ever heard a saying, “People will forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel”?

This quote pretty much sums up the importance of sub-communication.

So how exactly do you make her feel something?

You do this with the energy you transfer to a girl (aka sub-communication) rather than the words you vomit.

So you are having a good conversation with a girl and now..

How do I ask for her number? (aka number close her in pua term)

I went into detail about this topic in this article.

The basic idea is that you want to set up a plan before you get her number.

The last thing you want to do is waste your time and energy over text trying to schedule a date to meet with her.

It’s MUCH easier to get another person to comply with your request in person as opposed to over text.

So, take advantage of that and set up a date to hang out in person.

If you do that… then it’s only natural for you to ask for her number afterward…

It then becomes a simple matter of confirming one last time before (or on) the day you meet her.


She doesn’t feel comfortable sleeping with me yet.. (aka LMR in pua term)

The title is pretty self-explanatory.

She’s not feeling comfortable enough to sleep with you yet.

This can be due to external factors – she’s on a period, medication, past trauma – or she may be signaling you that her other needs are not yet met… for her to want to sleep with you.

It may be a simple matter of making her feel more comfortable by spending more time with her… and talking about more vulnerable topics that allow you and her to connect faster.

Or she may just not be turned on yet… and she wants you to figure out a way to get her into that sexual mood.

Anyway, that’s it for today.

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About the Author Jon Go

I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.