Did you know Asian guys need to make an additional $247,000 per year to have equal success with White girls compared to White guys?
Before we go any further, let me just emphasize that I’m not specifying “White girls” because I put them on a pedestal or anything.
That is simply what the “study’ says apparently.
Figured I should point that out… because I’ve come across a lot of butthurt dudes recently who are annoyed by Asian men going after White girls.
And love to clump all of us as “self-hating” racists who are just trying to get with White girls to “prove” ourselves.
While there’s certainly a lot of Asian dudes (and even more so Asian girls) who have a rather comical “no dating Asian policy”, which most certainly stems from some sort of internal racism… there is also a lot of Asian dudes who just prefer certain characteristics or physical features that’s more prevalent in certain races.
With that out of the way, let’s continue…
I went out with the same group of friends for one whole year.
They were all white, taller than me – ranging from 6’1 to 6’6, and all good looking guys.
They all knew how to talk to women as well.
In fact, many of them are working as a dating coach now.
So, based on what our society says, I’d have a zero fucking shot at competing against these guys as an Asian dude.
To make it even more interesting, we used to hit on the same girls competing against each other just for shits and giggles.
So I think I do have a pretty unique real-life experience in terms of how an Asian dude can fare against other races on the dating market.
So, what have I learned from going out with my friends – who were “objectively” more physically attractive than me – as an emasculated minority?
And Is it really true that you have no shot at competing against attractive guys of other races if you’re Asian?
Well.. It is true some girls have a preference toward a certain race.
My friends used to steal girls off of me all the time when I was still in that developmental stage of learning how to talk to girls.
I know that sounds like a dog thing to do between friends… but, trust me.
They are all super nice guys.
It’s just something we all mutually agreed to do because we were all curious to find out the truth about female psychology.
In fact, we did countless random things just to see how girls would respond in different scenarios.
Anyway, back to the topic…
I will be honest with you.
There were many times I was very tempted to just blame my race, my looks, my accent or whatever that is out of my control.
But… I just stuck in there instead of letting that victim mentality take over.
And eventually, as I got better and better at talking to girls, I was able to fare about equally with my friends.
And on a side note… I probably shouldn’t say this but…
If you got game and your friend got game… then many times the girl will happily sleep with both of you… at the same time.
Let’s just hope my parents don’t read this.
So, here’s my conclusion.
Yes, race matters. Yes, looks matter. Yes, anything and everything matters.
But if you know how to present yourself in an attractive way – especially in this day and age when the bar is so fucking low – you will have no problem finding the type of girl that you are happy to be with.
Trust me on that.
And here’s the thing.
Whenever I want to blame things that are out of my control, I just try to look at someone who got what they want in their lives despite all the struggles and challenges.
Because it really puts things into perspective.
Let’s look at Arnold’s life for example.
When he decided he’s going to be a star in Hollywood, he went to visit all these different movie directors.
And every single one of them told him he looks like a freak… and there’s no star in Hollywood with a weird accent like he has.
Guess what Arnold did?
He said, if there’s no one in Hollywood like me… then I’ll be the first one to set the example for the rest.
So he did.
Ask yourself this question.
Is finding a cute girl to date – no matter how much disadvantage you think you have – is it really harder than making it big in Hollywood with all the disadvantages that Arnold had?
The answer is no.
So, the question really comes down to this.
How bad do you want it…?
By no means do I want any guys to make it their life mission to chase girls all the time.
But I truly believe it’s important for your overall well-being – both mentally and physically – for you to be able to feel like you are actually in control of your dating life.
And to develop that ability to attract that person you are compatible with… that you really resonate with.
Because I still remember those days when I legitimately feared being alone forever… after my girlfriend had left me.
It was almost impossible for me to feel like a “real man”… when I failed at such a basic thing that should come so naturally (or so everyone thinks…) for men.
And that’s the whole point of these articles.
To help those who feel completely lost with their dating lives.
Anyway, that’s it for today.
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