I came across one video on Youtube the other day and it infuriated me.
And it is solely the reason why I decided to write a post about this topic.
So, what was the video about?
It was a long video but here is the basic summary of the video.
Asian men are the least desirable group and you are sh.. out of luck if you are an Asian dude.
The guy in the video went into great detail about why you are dearly f…ed if you are an Asian man, supporting all of his claims with statistics and such.
But, the video was clearly designed to make Asian men feel inadequate.
So, why the hell do I get so pissed off at videos like that?
I still remember when I was a virgin at the age of 26-years-old and any time I would come across videos like that, it would just take me to darker and darker places.
It would just further solidify my victim mentality and put me into a state of contraction rather than motivating me to take action and do something about my life.
So, I know for a fact there are Asian guys who would’ve been watching that video and thinking to themselves, “Yeah.. he’s probably right”.
And this is precisely the reason why a video like that infuriates me. Because there is a good chance someone without enough real-life experience would actually accept that type of message as absolute truth.
With that being said, let me go ahead and discuss some of the things that were brought up in the video
So, what message was the video creator trying to convey with these statistics?
He wanted to state that Asian men are less and less desirable even to Asian women.
So, how bad is it really?
Is it really true that guys from other races are stealing all Asian girls?
The reality is it is far from the truth that most Asian girls find them unappealing.
How can I prove this?
I would just kindly urge you to go out to any heavily populated area and observe Asian people.
You would see Asian guy and Asian girl couple are the most prevalent compared to any interracial couples.
Asian women still largely prefer Asian guys for the most part.
As I said in my previous article, like attracts like.
This statement was actually hilarious because it could not be further from the truth.
And this is also how I know the guy in the video never went out in his life.
Because the only way he could reach such a conclusion is if he just sat in his room with his disillusioned mind without any real-life experience.
I can say with confidence from years of going out intensely that an attractive Asian dude would most certainly be favored by most females over average guys from other races.
And that is assuming everything else (such as your game or personality… whatever you want to call it) is equal.
Your looks matter. Your personality matters. Your bank account matters.
Any and everything matters.
But, so what?
If it was all about height, why the f… did my 5’4 brother lose his virginity at the age of 14 while I (being 5’10+) was a virgin until the age of 26?
The answer is quite straightforward.
Because my head was in a completely messed up state and no amount of “physical attributes” would’ve helped me at that point.
Many guys fall into this trap of over-estimating the importance of height.
Yes, there are some girls who only like tall guys or who only like rich guys.
Just like there are guys who would only go for girls with plastic tits or big booties.
Does it mean they represent the entire population…? Hell no.
I had even witnessed a short Asian dude stealing a girl away from my 6’2 good looking friend (who didn’t exactly have bad game) because of his sheer charisma and charm.
Many girls respond extremely well if you have an amazing personality.
The problem is most guys simply don’t.
On a final note, the video ended with Asian girls belittling Asian guys for their small penis on the interview.
And that really got me thinking… this is exactly why Asian guys need to learn game.
So, they can get an unlimited option in their lives and do not have to take shit from these low-quality girls.
It actually saddens me when I see an Asian dude stuck in a relationship where he deals with all the BS from his girlfriend.
He stays with his girlfriend by rationalizing to himself that relationship is about making things work and being patient etc.
But, deep down, he knows he is only holding onto that relationship because he feels like he can’t do any better.
Because he feels like there would be no other girl who would give him a shot.
Or it would take YEARS for them to find a new girl.
I know what that feels like.
My first girlfriend would routinely text her ex-boyfriend(s) whenever we had a fight.
And I failed to set a strong boundary and let her know I wouldn’t tolerate such behavior.
Rather, I communicated to her (through my behavior) that it is okay to do whatever she pleases and there is absolutely nothing I will do about it.
As a result, her respect toward me decreased even further over time.
And we dragged on that toxic relationship for two years until it finally came to an end.
I want to end this article by saying it really is not as bad as how some people love to make it out to be for an Asian guy.
That is, as long as you learn to present yourself as a confident man.
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