Are Chinese girls easy?
Or more broadly, are Asian girls easy?
This is probably a bit of a controversial topic but…
I would much rather keep it real rather than being politically correct and regurgitating a bunch of BS that everyone else talks about.
Before I go on any further, let me just state this clearly.
This article is NOT about hating on Asian women or trying to demean them in any way.
But, rather just my honest opinion of Asian girls based on my real life experiences.
Because what is the point of writing anything publicly if I’m not going to share my honest thoughts and keep things real?
So without further ado, let’s dive in.
Let me first start out with a bit of a background story to give you a context of what my opinion is based off of.
Or how this topic even came up to my head in the first place.
Some of you may be familiar with my story, so I’ll keep it very brief.
I was a virgin until I was 26 years old and I “luckily” got my first girlfriend because she was into Asian culture.
Finally got out of my toxic relationship at the age of 28 and I was left as a dude who’s never approached a girl in my life (since my first girlfriend approached me).
That was when I was introduced into this whole “seduction” community.
And I’ve gone out (as a wingman) with hundreds of guys since then.
I personally do not have much experience with Asian girls because I almost strictly went for White and Black girls.
While this is not something I “consciously” did, there may be a few different reasons for it if I had to guess.
I remember the first time I went out to approach girls with this guy I met on Facebook.
I was nervous as hell and this guy encouraged me to go talk to this Asian girl as a “warm-up” although she was not my type at all.
I stopped her and tried to introduce myself.
She was visibly annoyed by my approach (which is understandable because I was terrible back then) and basically told me, “What the eff do you want..?”
Needless to say, I panicked and mumbled some unknown words as I saw her walk away.
It was probably at that time when I thought to myself… “Why the eff did I even bother talking to this ugly girl only to get treated like a dog crap…?”
And that was probably the day I decided to stick to girls that I actually find attractive, which often excluded most Asian girls.
Although I was never personally into a lot of Asian girls because I’m more of a booty guy (and that’s rarer to find among Asian girls…), I have witnessed a lot of interaction between my friends and Asian girls.
And it became more and more clear that Asian girls seem to be more receptive than girls of other races.
One explanation may be that Asian girls put White guys on a pedestal because of influence from the media.
But, there was one problem with that explanation based on what I had observed.
So, what was the “problem” with that explanation?
It was the fact that almost every guy I knew had an easier time with Asian girls no matter what race they are (Asian, Brown, White, Black… all of them).
So, I naturally thought about another explanation that could explain this.
And I was able to find a clue from a quote by Tony Robbins.
As Tony Robbins says, “We are attracted to who are like us or who we want to be like”.
And here’s the fact…
Most guys that get into learning about this whole seduction thing tend to fall even below average when it comes to social skill.
And if you look at most Asian girls, they tend to be more shy and reserved on average.
So, it once again goes back to the quote I mentioned earlier.
Like attracts like.
I know there are some who like to argue opposites attract. But, that simply has not been true in my experience.
Generally speaking, we gravitate toward people who share more similarities with us than not.
It is just in our human nature to rather “settle” with something we are familiar with instead of taking a risk by choosing something that is foreign to us… even if that may potentially be a better option.
For the same reason I had stated above, I noticed guys with a really “big” personality sometimes struggle with Asian girls.
Reason being… their game almost does not matter because Asian girls have an incredibly difficult time understanding their humor and sarcasm.
The truth is, no amount of “game” matters when the girl has no clue what you are talking about.
And that is usually what happens when these guys talk to Asian girls.
Their incredible amount of wits just confuse girls and push them away rather than drawing the girl in.
In case you are into Asian girls, it is generally a good idea to turn a notch down on your personality… if you have a tendency to be overly energetic and charismatic.
Disclaimer: This applies more for FOB girls rather than Asian girls that are born in America (or Canada or Australia).
On a final note, I want to talk about why I think some Asian girls only prefer White guys.
There can obviously be a lot of different reasons for it.
If I had to guess, however, it’s most likely because they did not have a healthy relationship with their dad growing up (aka daddy issues…).
Or maybe, they had an abusive Asian boyfriend who treated them like shit.
Although, I would imagine the first scenario is most likely.
That was also one of the major reasons why I tended to favor Asian girls less over girls of other race.
Because I did not particularly have a healthy relationship with my mother growing up.
I did eventually adopt a more balanced view and came to realize it’s extremely stupid to have a preference for a certain race.
Anyway, that’s enough rambling for today.
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