So, do I really prefer a White woman because I hate being Asian, or is there a good reason for my preference?
This article is dedicated to you if you are a fellow Asian brother who grew up in the Western World, and you absolutely hate being told who you are supposed to date.
In this article, I want to talk about a few good reasons why you do not want to exclude White girls from your dating demographic if you are an Asian man (or any other racial minorities for that matter).
1. Why I chose the AMWF route
Let me first briefly talk about how I developed my preference for Non-Asian girls, and I’m sure you will be able to relate to some of the things I say if you are still reading this article.
I was 28 years old when I broke up with my first girlfriend.
I luckily stumbled upon her at the age of 26 (I was a kissless virgin until then), and I was certain I would spend the rest of my life with her.
My neediness and lack of boundaries eventually drove her away, and I felt clueless about how I can attract another woman into my life.
I knew I was destined to be alone and miserable if I did not learn how to talk to girls.
The clock was ticking, and I wasn’t getting any younger.
I desperately felt the urgency to improve my social skills and learn how to connect with women (and people in general).
Otherwise, I could see myself laying on my deathbed at an old age all by myself, and thinking to myself, “Where did everything go wrong?”
So, I made a commitment to tear my old self apart and become a completely new and better version of myself.
In order to improve my social skills, I did not, however, take a typical route of “Join different clubs and meet people through hobbies”.
Instead, I decided to take a little more hardcore route by forcing myself to talk to random strangers because I knew that was going to build my courage better.
I still remember the first time I ever approached a stranger.
It was a very average Asian girl, and I didn’t feel any desire to talk to her.
But, my friend pretty much forced me to go talk to her.
When I went up to her and tried to initiate a conversation, she basically told me to get lost as soon as I said a few words.
Was it because she hated an Asian man, or was it simply because I was weird and awkward?
If I had to guess, it was probably closer to the latter.
But, that incident aside, I’ve come to realize that there are a lot of Asian girls who blatantly mock Asian men, and they take some weird pride in their preference against Asian men.
And that pretty much made me turn my back against Asian women (along with their lack of curves…)
2. Why you may prefer White women
And here is another possible reason for my preference for AMWF relationship.
I did not have a very healthy relationship with my mother growing up.
My mom was physically present but she wasn’t quite emotionally present.
If I had to guess, my ‘mommy issue’ most likely played a role in me not wanting to date an Asian woman (This is probably the same reason why many Asian girls don’t want to date an Asian man).
But, I believe this is the core reason why I prefer White girls over Asian girls.
Growing up, I was constantly told by the media and the people around me that White girls don’t find Asian men attractive (I grew up in Canada).
Let me ask you this…
How do you feel when you are constantly told by others that you are not cut out for a certain thing?
If your brain is not operating in an apathetic state, you would probably give them a big middle finger and take the needed actions to prove them wrong.
And that’s exactly what I did.
I forced myself to become more social and outgoing.
I went out and made love to more White girls than I’m proud to admit.
At the end of the day, I didn’t get the fulfillment I was looking for.
But, I did learn a lot about myself during this journey.
I’ll be the first person to admit that it was an incredibly petty motivation that pushed me to transform myself.
But, however petty it may have been, it did serve as a catalyst for me to change my personality for the better.
All I can say is I just absolutely hated being told what I am or am not capable of doing.
And to be very blunt, there is some truth to those stereotypes.
Generally speaking, it is true that Asian men tend to be more reserved than men of other races.
Asian men also tend not to speak up for themselves.
And these are all qualities that are not so highly desirable in men that live in the Western World.
4. Why you should choose AMWF over AMAF route
To make matters worse (for Asian men), Asian women are dating (and getting married) outside of their race at an increasing rate while Asian men are still facing a lot of challenges in the dating market.
Even worse, many Asian women take the joy out of blatantly putting Asian men down.
“I don’t date Asian men because I don’t want people to think he’s my brother.”
“Sorry, I don’t date Asian men (with a proud tone). They are short and ugly”
How many times have you heard Asian girls say something similar to that?
On the other hand, how many times have you heard Asian men talk about Asian women in a derogatory way? Not many.
I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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