So, what are some of the things you should avoid saying to a woman?
This article will reveal what you should absolutely not say to a woman if you want to have a shot at attracting her.
You will also gain an accurate understanding of why some of these are such terrible things to say to a woman.
By the way, none of these points matter without you learning about the last point we will be discussing in this article, so make sure you don’t miss that!
These are the 7 things you must never say to a woman.
1. You smell bad
Women care a lot about good hygiene.
There is a reason why most women are turned off by a man who smells really bad even if he is physically attractive.
So, if you call a woman out for her bad odor, then it is going to hit her hard emotionally.
If you notice she has bad breath, then you should simply offer her a piece of gum instead of being direct about it.
You may think honesty is the bedrock of a good relationship, but this is a clear exception.
In many cases, you are better off not being so blunt about how you feel toward her flaws unless you are trying to intentionally hurt her.
Don’t use being honest as an excuse to be a terrible human being.
2. You are not a relationship material
This is definitely not something you want to say to most women.
I get that women in this day and age are more sexually liberated, and most of them pretend to not care about their sexual history.
But, no matter how much everyone tries to say how women should not be judged for what she’s done in her past, there is still a lot of judgment toward women for sleeping around with men.
And while it may not be the most politically correct thing to say, there is a good reason why men (and women too) harshly judge women’s sexual past.
If you look at how we have evolved, a man had to go out to hunt and gather resources while a woman stayed home to take care of her kids and do housework.
This meant that an ancestral man had no surefire way of ensuring that his wife remains faithful while he’s out to get food for his family.
So, it was important for him to ensure that he does not get into a committed relationship with a woman who will possibly cheat on him, as it would be a big waste of his time and resources.
And whether you like to admit it or not, a number of partners that a woman has had in the past has statistically been shown to be the best predictor of if a woman is going to be faithful in a relationship or not.
For this reason, most men can’t help but judge a woman for her sexual past, and most women are fully aware of this as well.
Many women feel insecure about how they may be too much of a “used good” for them to get into a relationship with a high-quality man.
So, when you insinuate to a woman that she is not really a relationship material, it will likely deeply hurt her.
3. You look a little chubby
I’m sure you realize that women are sensitive about their weight.
Telling a woman she is fat is pretty much equivalent to telling a man he is short with a small pecker (which is not really a fair comparison since weight is something that is within your control).
Women are constantly bombarded with images of other beautiful women on social media and on television.
The rise of social media did something funny to women in that it is easy for even an average woman to get validation from men (which you think would help boost their self-esteem), but at the same time, they also have access to thousands of images of much more attractive women than them.
So, whatever boost in self-esteem they experience from all of the validation they get on their social media account is offset by a constant comparison they experience with other attractive women.
This can make women incredibly sensitive to criticism about their appearance (especially women who are in their 20s who spend the majority of their time on social media).
So, any remarks you make that subtly communicate that she is overweight will likely make her despise you.
4. My ex-girlfriend is way better than you
What woman likes to be compared to another person? Especially when it is a woman you’ve shared your past.
You may be able to relate to this story if you come from a cultural background that puts heavy emphasis on excelling in school.
Growing up with an Asian family, my mom used to always compare me to her friend’s sons who were doing better than me in school.
Did this inspire me to push myself to do better in school?
Nope, it just made me resent my mom, and turn my back against her.
The same thing is most likely going to happen when you start comparing your current girl to your ex-girlfriend.
It doesn’t even have to be a direct comparison (I’ll have to assume you have enough common sense to not say such foolish things).
But, even something as insignificant as talking about how your ex-girlfriend had nice, big breasts or a nice butt can often trigger most women to become enraged.
You are free to have whatever thoughts in your head, but that does not mean you have to outwardly express them to her.
5. Your skin looks bad
Talking about a girl’s skin is a big no-no unless you are complimenting her about her smooth skin.
Girls spend a lot of time and effort into making their skin look nice.
When you make a joke about a woman’s dark circle or her pimples, she is not going to take it well.
Something that may appear as insignificant as commenting about how she looks tired can make a woman feel insecure about her face and skin.
As a side note, do you want to know the best way to make a woman feel insecure and uncomfortable when she has a pimple?
You stare at her pimple while you are talking to her.
You are pretty much guaranteed to make her feel like crap, and you are going to make her feel really uncomfortable talking to you.
So, stay away from making any disrespectful comment about her skin unless you want her to hate you for life.
6. You look old
If you are intelligent enough to be reading this article, you obviously have enough social intelligence to not overtly put a girl down for her not-so-youthful appearance.
Throughout our evolution, men have preferred women who are most fertile.
And the best indicator of a woman’s fertility is her age.
A woman who is in her early 20s is usually in the most fertile stage of her life.
For this reason, a man has developed a preference for a younger woman, and women are fully aware of this preference.
Why do you think the beauty and skincare industry is so big?
It is not because the media somehow brainwashed men and women into believing that youthful appearance is supposed to be the standard of beauty.
It is because men are evolutionarily wired to prefer women with a healthy, youthful look, and these companies are simply helping women fulfill their desire to look attractive for men.
So, when you say anything to a woman that indicates she looks old, it is pretty much equivalent to telling her that she looks ugly and unattractive.
7. You are boring
So far, we have mostly talked about things that are not related to a woman’s personality, and for good reasons.
Whether we like to admit it or not, women are most heavily judged based on their appearance.
Most men simply do not care a lot about a woman’s status, personality, and wealth as much as her appearance.
This may be a tough pill to swallow for some, but it simply is the truth.
But, there are a few insults you can make about her personality that could very well tick her off, and calling her boring is one of them.
So, why is it so bad to call a woman boring?
Think about the type of persona most girls are trying to put out on their social media, for example.
It is the image of a woman who is happy, fun, youthful and enjoying life.
When you tell a woman she is boring, that is exactly the opposite of what she likely wants to be.
No woman wants to appear dull and uninteresting to men, so it will be a big blow to her ego if you insinuate she is boring.
8. Just say what you want when you are in doubt
So far, we have talked about what you should not say to a woman, and you’ve also learned the reasons why you should avoid saying some of the things we have talked about so far.
But, if you don’t take away anything from this article, I want you to take away this last point I’m about to tell you.
If you have a tendency to over-think when you are talking to a woman, and you are constantly lost on what to say, then I urge you to just practice saying whatever that pops up in your mind (Yes, even if it means saying some of the things I told you to not say in this article…).
The truth is, women don’t become attracted to you because you stay away from saying all of the offensive things.
In fact, that is a great way to become friend-zoned by a woman you are into.
Once you start filling your head up with all of the things that you shouldn’t say, you will just become extremely stifled whenever you are interacting with a woman, and it would be impossible to generate that nice spark between you and the girl.
So, if you have a tendency to over-think, then just forget about everything we have talked about in this article, and learn to speak what is on your mind with no filters.
I was Introduced to the world of seduction after being a virgin for the first 26 years of life and being dumped by my first girlfriend at the age of 28. The dating world wasn't so kind to a 28-year-old Asian man who barely had any experience with girls. But, I eventually cracked the "code" and began "attracting" two to three new girls a week on average when I was actively going out. I'm not mentioning that to impress you but to impress upon you that you can take your dating life to the next level... IF you are equipped with the right knowledge and a desire to take massive action.
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